Guy wanted sex right away on first date red flag or is it normal?

[JanetMaree]

[Vesuvius87]

Major red flag. He's going to ghost you afterwards.

[spartan55]

That's not necessarily true at all.

[Vesuvius87]

@spartan55
But why risk it? It's better if she doesn't give in too fast. Any man wants sex, bit deal.

[Vesuvius87]

Big deal

[JanetMaree]

Maybe she’s going based on her own experiences!!

[Vesuvius87]

I've been used for both sex and money before. I got cheated on, lovebombed, scammed, etc. Now I'm engaged and he already booked his flight for Sept 10. Then it's our wedding calculated to be around Sept 20.

[JanetMaree]

I’m sorry you went through all that and congratulations!!

[Vesuvius87]

It's ok. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Thank you.

[JanetMaree]

I agree you’re welcome

[spartan55]

@Vesuvius87
Personally I would never expect or assume sex was happening on a first date. Guys who do are low class and are definite red 🚩flags.
I won't refuse sex on a first date if it happens organically (which has only happened to me a few times in my whole life) One girl I ended up dating for a few months. So not likely, but not impossible.

[bowenw]

He may have just asked you on the date for sex. If that is not what you were expecting, it's a red flag.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[spartan55]

If you are asking this seriously and not trolling then you really need to raise your standards.

[kylee2437]

Red flag. A guy doesn’t know you enough for all that

[Daniela1982]

Normal for some, but what is normal for them might not be normal for you. Just tell them to kiss your ass. They are not getting any.

[Nikki1989]

Red flag, but normal for men who have nothing else to offer.

[Retsam]

hahahahaha IF A GUY IS ON A DATE WITH YOU, ITS FOR SEX SIMPLE!
GUYS DONT GO ON DATE WITH WOMEN WE DONT WANT TO
HAVE SEX WITH.
SO COMPLETELY NORMAL HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX. Thats the main
goal why here's there

[EmmaMary]

Huge Red Flag... Sadly this does seem to be the norm as some guys are simply being led by their knobs.

[noohair]

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex. It was usually courtship and marriage. Women wanted freedom and equality. This is what freedom and equality looks like.

[LEGENDARY4200]

Typically but who doesn't want to fuck right away

[dudegreat91]

Normal, no wasting time for a bonk

[jahaims]

Red flag obviously

[eagle1951]

red red red