My date was looking at a photo of another woman longingly when I went to the bathroom. red flag?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Are you kidding me? Can you imagine what he would do if not in your presence? That is very ballsy and frankly disrespectful as hell. How don't care if she was model or butt ugly... no one does that on a date. At least no one in their right mind and a concern for others. Are you sure this guy is for you? Living a secret life in front of you if you give him 3 minutes while yo are in the restroom. RUN... Make sense? Sorry for tangent ;-)

[Avicenna]

I would say no. Men do notice attractive women and you are not yet in a relationship and could be meeting other people as well.

[Asker]

She was not attractive

[Avicenna]

Are you sure it was her that made him that way? It sounds like it might have been something else.

[Danny_dan92]

If you two aren’t together that’s fair game. Otherwise if you are together then he cheating or attempting to cheat

[Asker]

At the same time there’s a time and place

[Danny_dan92]

True. In that case it’s disrespectful

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not a red flag, he probably taught she was very pretty.

[spartan55]

Longingly? Could you be any more biased?

[Asker]

He was smiling at it and had his hands on his face just staring then when he noticed me coming he quickly put his phone away

[spartan55]

Wow, that's great. You sure he didn't blow a kiss to the photo of the other woman?

[Wise4myage]

Come on, seriously?

[Asker]

What do you mean seriously