A woman blurred her pictures on a dating app after talking and matching with me?

[Anonymous]

She claims to be super religious and she blurred her photos on a dating app after a week of talking to each other. I dared not ask but it felt like she could have simply unmatched me but she didn't. So, any ideas what gives? She says she wants marriage but is still searching for compatibility.

PS: What does the bluring of pictures on her profile signify?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ayo dawg, that whole situation sounds weird as hell. A few things could be up:

- She playing games - Some chicks get off on the attention but ain't tryna put in work. Blurring her pics keeps you interested without showing her cards.

- Got options - Could be she talking to other dudes too and wasn't feelin you like that. Blurred pics so she don't have to choose.

- Hiding something - My boy, religious or not, blurring pics on a DATING app is sketch. Makes me think she lying about something - looks, age, other guys, who knows.

- Overly cautious - I guess maybe she really nervous about privacy or her folks seeing. But dating app is risky place then.

My advice - I'd pump the brakes on this one bruh. Keep it casual and don't invest too much emotionally til you see what's what. Feel her out more before catching feeling you know? Some chicks be on that game shit. Protect ya heart my guy.

[Asker]

That's pretty good advice. I knew she was hiding something from the start. She is 36 what more does she want to hide 🤣.
I think she is going to pull a reverse card and say it's my fault she doesn't like me. Happened before so guarantee she is same type of bitch.
I am not going to play games and cut her loose even if she is thinking of wasting time.
I hate time wasters. Religious or not, no wonder no one wanted to marry her in the past. Thanks, I owe you for this.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah dude, for sure don't waste your time with someone like that! At 36, if she's still hiding stuff and playing games then there's probably a reason no one's married her yet. Religious or not, that behavior is sketchy as hell.

And you're right, she'll probably try to turn it around and make you the bad guy somehow. These kinds of girls are always blaming other people when they're the ones being shady. Don't even give her the chance - just cut her off cleanly before she can try spinning it.

You deserve way better than having some bitch jerk you around! Don't let her waste any more of your time or energy. Plenty more fish and all that. You've got your head on straight, you'll find someone real who isn't playing dumb mind games. No need to thank me - just lookin out for a brotha! Forget about her and on to the next one!

[Asker]

I wish I just marry a Christian girl. I used to think they are dirty but I have seen lots of it lately. Especially since my broken engagement. I rather be with a Christian western woman than with a religious pretenders.
Thank you, you somehow always reach my questions here. So, I wish I could have a way to use western dating apps from my country, it would be much better. I can't believe I told her I can go meet her. Travelling isn't a problem but this fakeness and drama queen behavior is a big hurdle for me.
I am just going to tell her it's not going to work. Or rather just block her so she can celebrate her victory against another guy. I can't believe I took pity on her as her parents were not living with her.

[DannyUk2017]

Sadly she's just full of 💩.
A "religious person" doesn't look for her "match" On Line! Lets be Realistic about it.

[RoseySarah]

So much info left out!

Still messaging?

Even with photo blurred we get 40 matches and texts probably her way of cutting down the horny messages and omg there are dozens daily!

Move on if your so unsure and match away!

What religion no one ever shares and it matters!

[Asker]

She has showed interest.
She hasn't messaged me but that she does before. She is likely going to ghost me but I am curious why blurr but not unmatch?
Religion is Islam. She claims to be very religious living alone in Abu Dhabi.
I am sure about her. I am not sure if she is sure about me. We hardly know about each other especially me since we haven't talked. She wants her parents out of the role of marriage. Anyhow I am only interested in marriage despite her being slightly older than me.

[RoseySarah]

If your not messaging daily then she is not interested! Time to move on your ghosted or a attention back up.
She found someone else!

[Asker]

Thanks, I think I should tell you something. You know I am sorry I thought you were a bad girl.. you are really good at heart. But you should really not think bad about me. I am naive compared to you

[RoseySarah]

Who is this? This is random

[Asker]

Name starts with A, just messaged you