Guys, What are some things a girl could do to help a guy feel more comfortablewith admitting their feelings?

[Anonymous]

I like my guy friend and everyone can see or notice how we act and flirt. He'll, everyone thinks we are already secretly together. Despite asking him out, he's more of the type to take the lead and have it on his terms. Still, we have a back and forth vibe on flirting and moving forward that at times is awkward. He's introverted, observant, and prefers to be rather mysterious. What do you guys recommend or suggest to move things along?

[CloudMassacre]

Her opening up helps me open up a lot. Sharing that vulnerability

[Asker]

Opening about life? Personal stuff? Does it make you feel more inclined to share as well?

[CloudMassacre]

Yeah, all of that. It makes me feel safer

[BarryLiverstone]

You asked him out and he didn’t go. So no need to pursue him right?

[Asker]

He then turned around and asked me out. I followed up and then asked him out, he said no. ikw I said, he seems to want to take the lead and at his pace.

[BarryLiverstone]

He still said no. Best to ask someone else out

[spartan55]

So he turned you down when you asked him out?

[Asker]

Yes only for him to take me out recently. I followed up and asked him out... he said no. But then wants to plan something soon. It's like I can't do the asking... he has to do it.

[spartan55]

He won't ask you... just wait.