Why type of qualities in a woman attract obsession/possessive type guys?

[Anonymous]

[benfrankenstein]

I don’t think it’s any particular thing about the women. I think it has way more to do with the guys. And not all these guys are assholes, at least not intentionally. Some people just have obsessive minds or may be on the spectrum or have OCD or ADHD tendencies, which aren’t their fault. I’ve definitely been on both sides of the equation, but it all had to do with my OCD and low self-esteem. Once I got a handle on my mental illnesses and learned to cope better, that problem kinda went away or became a lot easier to deal with. And like I said, I’ve also been on the other end of it as well. Lots of codependent relationships. It’s why I was single by choice for a few years, to work on myself.

But yeah, I can’t think of any specific qualities women might have that would cause it. Some people just have obsessive personalities.

[Asker]

Hmmm...

[Asker]

So I guess almost every guy is mentally ill then..

[itsalyssaagain]

I love that. It kind of applies to some women too. That’s why we make poor choices sometimes.

[spartan55]

It usually doesn't matter much. Some guys look for pushover types, some guys it doesn't matter.

[Changiis07]

High valued women. Women who have things going on and aren't waiting for a guy but they are living their lives. Women who don't wait around for a guy or have them walk all over her. They set boundaries and any guys who fall short of that she pays no attention to as she is too busy loving her life

[itsalyssaagain]

I’d also like to know because I attract the worst guys every time.

[MrTaboo]

Obedient almost needy

[Asker]

Is that a turn on

[MrTaboo]

For them yes. For me as a Dom, kinda, it's more of a requirement.

[Anonymous]

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