What are some tactics guys use when they are trying to get a girl to dump them?

[DermalPunch]

Not necessarily being rude or mean. More subtle tactics.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Not necessarily get them to dump me, but when I'm about to have the relationship end. I'll be less communicative. Won't answer texts as fast or in depth, won't share my feelings, won't show interest in their life, etc. I usually do this to make sure I can get all my shit from them, then I have the breakup talk.

[DermalPunch]

Well what if you are trying to avoid dumping them?

[JustADudePlayinADude]

I don't, but people that I know that have tried to get their girlfriend to dump them have used that tactic until the girl starts the break up talk.

[Yurvurst_Knightmer]

Stop being romantic? Initiate contact way less? Just in general being distant hoping she'll get bored of him.

[hahahmm]

Guys don't play games like women do... if a guy is with you it's because he's not ready to dump you but it's hard for females to comprehend, I guess.

[DermalPunch]

It isn't a game.. if in his mind he wants to dump you or rather doesn't intend and comitting, it will show up in his actions. Normal men will do enough to secure sexual favours but don't want to outright deceive so they just do the bare minimum.

[hahahmm]

Guys don't take women serious if she doesn't take herself serious. But sometimes a guy is in a situation where he hopes she takes herself more seriously & he's waiting to see if that happens. A lot of women complain that a guy seemed into her at first & then later he wasn't. They don't get that the reason is he thought she was less shallow at first... or similar & later he learned better so he changed his mind. Women act like a man has no right to make a choice from what I can see. Probably why women are known to get very angry when they get dumped. "a woman scorned" and all that. Most guys move on easier than women do.

[DermalPunch]

Faccccctsss.

[jengeorge26]

I don’t have a boyfriend now, but if I did, and he would start checking out my girlfriends, I would never have known that he was just trying to break up, I would do the breaking up and not even know that he was using reverse psychology on me as a tactic to end our relationship. I bet guys maybe use this as a tactic, not sure?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've never seen anyone do that. People who don't want to stay in a relationship typically do the dumping, they don't stick around waiting for the other person to do itor making themselves looks stupid in public (that would just risk fucking up finding a new SO)

[DermalPunch]

People SO do this. Lol. Even my mom's boyfriend said back in the day he used to do it.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Inappropriate behavior in public? Humiliation in front of people? Breaking of trust? Anything of such behavior?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Just like girl's when they are trying to get a guy to dump them

[NathanDavis]

no idea... never been a douchebag before

[bean2k21]

Ignore their "safe word"

[Andres77]

Check out her friends?

[msc545]

We ignore them.

[Anonymous]

I am outspoken

[Opinion Owner]

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