Guys, Guys: Would you be upset if a girl never responded to your breakup text?

[Anonymous]

Especially if it was early on - after 1 or 2 dates.

[OlderAndWiser]

After 1 or 2 dates, there is not a relationship to "break up." I am only signalling the fact that I don't want to continue dating. It would be nice to know that she received the message and accepted my decision without being upset. If I don't get a response, I don't really know if she treated the message as being rather insignificant and not worthy of a response, or if she is so devastated that she doesn't know how to respond. But, if she doesn't respond back to me, then there is really nothing more to be said. . . and since I don't want to see her any more, that is okay.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[TroyDT]

A "breakup text" is tacky so "No." I would never do that, and if I did I would certainly not expect her to dignify that action by responding.

[spartan55]

Breakup TEXT? Ugh... that's tacky.