Why do I feel this way towards a guy that would never like me even if his life depended on it?

[lol_e222]

So I've liked this guy since may (a little before my schools spring trip), he showed me the slightest bit of attention and i fell so hard for him. then we hung out with some of our other friends at this place and it was fun and all he got me a plushie, and thats when i started liking him more. he showed mixed signal like asking me on minecraft dates, called me pretty, and was super nice. but nmd bc he said it was all a joke, and i still like him...

[Ladybugharp]

He's not going all in for you - and sounds like the typical bad boy cliche we all fall for.

Also, you mentioned you fell hard for him when he gave you the slightest bit of attention. So potentially, this could mean you're not receiving enough affection/attention from the people in your life, resulting in the sense of low self-worth and are trying to fill this gap, OR you have not received this type of attention before from the gender you are attracted to.

You need to start asking yourself deeper questions to find out what genuine and worthy qualities you want from a partner and what inner work you need to do if you're lacking self-love.

He 100% does not deserve your attention or time - mixed signals are never a positive outcome.

[lol_e222]

thank you this helped a lot

[Ladybugharp]

No, thanks for your kind response, and you're welcome :)

[242plusInfinity]

The Answer: Because desire is the unexpressed possibility within seeking expression through you. Desire is located in the subconscious mind aka the emotional mind. That's also where your beliefs are. Beliefs are not logical and neither is desire...

@lol_e222 You asked and I delivered now pay me

[Guy13]

Even though he does not like you and has said so... you still want to be with him. Am I getting this right?

[lol_e222]

yes, its just an attachment to him generally

[Guy13]

Okay. Heartache and tears 😭

[chocomilk99]

There can be many reasons.
Hormone imbalance
Pregnancy
Emotional sentimental
Periods (mood swings)
Or u r just dumb (highly likely)

[Yourservicemam]

Levels of Attraction
May be on two different levels..
See what he really wants
Ask yourself what are you willing give
But not past more than you feel is Ok

[Njzammu]

Is he a jock/ dick or a nice guy? If he's a jock he was "joking", its not really a nice joke, its teasing/borderliny bullying.

If he's a nice guy he likes you but he's too shy to admit it for fear of being rejected.

[Iron_Man]

It’s probably because you’re desperate to get out there and date but you have to find the right quality of guy that’s right for you

[Jltakk]

No clue, what attracts a woman is an alien concept to me unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

Forget him. Guys are a dime-a-dozen.

[Yourservicemam]

Not all guys are created equal
We have our flaws
We also appreciate someone that is Real about who they are…

[Vegasrunner]

Not the ones that women want

[In_Trance]

You tell us