Why would you tell a female colleague that you’re gonna have a drink or generally talk about drinks whenever you see her?

[Anonymous]

[wheist9095]

It's a subtle way of them hinting that they would want to go out and get drinks but they don't want to behave inappropriately in the workplace and openly invite you out for a date. I think what they're doing is either trying to hint that they want you to ask them out for drink, or maybe they're just an alcoholic and they just fucking love drinking.

[Asker]

I really like him so what should I do?

[wheist9095]

I would say, the next time he talks about drinks, say something like, hey how about you grab a drink with me

[Asker]

But he never says we should get a drink, normally he just talks about his favourite drinks….

[wheist9095]

Yeah, he doesn't want to make the first move, because at work it can be super inappropriate

[Anonymous]

Well it sounds like she drives him to drink. 🤣

[Asker]

No lol