What does it mean when a guy ask out every girl?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Imagine I had a magic wand, and I waved it and made you unattractive. You're now 60 pounds heavier, with none of the weight in the right places, your entire wardrobe has been replaced with frumpy 10-year-old clothes, you can't use makeup, and your hair is a mess. And, now, you need to find someone to date.

How do you think you're going to find a man when you're now a 2/10 in looks? Do you think it's going to be easy? You're literally going to be invisible to most men, and because of this magic spell, nothing you can do will change that. Do you think that might alter your dating strategy at all? How will you find one of the few men who would even consider dating you?

That's the exact scenario that the majority of men face.

Multiple studies have shown that women find 80% of men "below average" in looks - even though that's mathematically impossible. But what this means is that 80% of men are virtually invisible to women - if you see them at all, it's just long enough to swipe left as fast as you can. If that guy isn't fixing your sink or working on your car, you wouldn't notice him at all. This is 80% of men - the vast majority of men.

If you were one of those men, and you had to find the 1% of women who might consider dating you, out of all of the other single women out on the market who are all trying to get a Top 10% guy and are ignoring everyone else, how would you do that? I'll tell you how: you approach EVERY woman who is even a little bit attractive, and you know full well that you're going to get rejected almost every time, but EVENTUALLY, after you do this soul-crushing thing a hundred or two hundred or three hundred times, you'll eventually find one girl who agrees to a date. Not sex, not a long-term relationship, just a date - and 1/3 of those girls are only accepting the date for free food and entertainment.

This is the reality that most men face, and this is why, for most men, finding a girl is a numbers game, and only a small percentage have the guts and the persistence to approach tons of women and get shot down hundreds of times in order to finally get one "yes."

[Anonymous]

Because guys have a different selection process. Women know generally about 50% (or more) of guys will date them. Guys on the other hand know only about 10% of women will even be remotely attracted to them. Half of that (so 5%) will go out with him if he's gets past the first conversation without turning her off. About 3% of those will sleep with him but won't go on a second date with him and of the remaining 2%. 1% percent will flake and lose interest. So every guy KNOWS a guy has to ask about 100 women to get 1 actual potential relationship. Women don't really know what actual rejection is so I can see how this is a foreign concept to you. 🤣

[Suns_set]

I've read somewhere from a guy that this behavior is that they are seeing who will accept their offer because the more shots they shoot the higher probability for a girl will accept.

It's quite smart if you ask me.

[OlderThanILook]

Because that's one of the only realistic ways to find someone. We're not girls. We don't get people showing interest in us very often so we just have to go out and ask for it if we want to start dating.

[Asker]

So you have to ask out every single girl? That sounds crazy you don't like every girl unless you are a whore.

[OlderThanILook]

You ask them out to see whether or not you'll like them or not lol. I personally think guys shouldn't be the ones asking but that's generally how guys think. They want to go out with a girl on a few dates to see if they're worth being in a relationship with.

[Asker]

They ask a girl on a date to see if he can get some pussy that what it is.

[OlderThanILook]

Sure, if that's what you believe then that's what it is

[Asker]

It is true I had it happen to me plenty of times when guys be asking out everyone that means they want sex.

[OlderThanILook]

Sure let's go with that

[Asker]

The only reason why I asked was because to see how double standard you all are because if I would of said that about a woman you would say whore.

[OlderThanILook]

Right

[FilmGuy93]

That he lacks social awareness and is more interested in being with someone than being with someone.

[maximumpower]

He's desperate - for some reason.
Run away, run away!!!

[Gangactivities911]

Because most women will say no so what other option is there?

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Maybe trying to get some practice talking to girls.

[jshm2]

He's desperate

[Asker]

Thank you

[BarryLiverstone]

It means you are more into him than he is into you

[Asker]

How does a guy asking out every girl have anything to do with what you just said

[BarryLiverstone]

Cuz he’s asking lots of girls and you somehow know he is

[Asker]

I be seeing guys asking out a lot of women I'm not talking to any guy.

[Apologies456]

He wants them…

[Luckycharms12]

Seems s bit desperate

[Anonymous]

He's playing the odds.