He never ask my number?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on language exchange app. We've been seeing for almost 3 months and we've been texting everyday. We had sex after 5th dates. I'm not sure if he is multiple date but I asked for exclusivity the other day. I like him. He said he likes me a lot.
But he NEVER ask my number:'( What do I do?

[DaveJord]

I would say you do nothing. This guy sounds like he took advantage of you. I mean if he sampled the goods and is not following up with you then he is not really in interested. If you ever meet up with him again I would not jump into bed with him again until you get a better feel for his true intentions.

If he asks you out again I would wait until your on the date and tell him that you're not that type of girl. That you are not looking for sex right away and you got carried away last time. Tell him you are really looking for a committed and monogamous relationship. Regardless of what he says don't jump in bed with him again until after the next 3 dates. If he wants a real relationship all you need tell him is that you want to hold off on sex until you feel comfortable about it again.

[Asker]

Thank you for great advice. It helps me a lot. Thanks

[DaveJord]

Thanks, I try to keep it real and be helpful... I wish you the best.

[spartan55]

How are you asking for exclusivity when you don't even have his number? You are being used.

[Asker]

I believed he would ask my number or give it to his number. Cos I asked for exclusivity. Sadly there is no change... Maybe he is shy? :'(

[spartan55]

No, I don't think that's it.

[Anonymous]

You asked for exclusivity, but don’t even have his number? You’re being used.

[Opinion Owner]

He won’t give his number so when he’s ready he can ghost and you can’t contact him. My friend had that happen with guy she neon a dating app.

[Asker]

I sort of thought he would ask my number or give it to his number and i was waiting for him. Ahhh I feel like... :'( I'm really sad

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry. All I can say is to try to make a better choice next time you like a guy. Have his number from the start and ask early on about how he feels when it comes to exclusivity.

[bean2k21]