What makes a guy go from being all about me all the time to “I’ll see you in a few weeks” & minimal texts?

[anonbrunette99]

[Anonymous]

You’re boring.

Yes, it’s probably that simple.

Sorry if you take it as an insult. But women seem to always think that a guy finding them boring is not a possibility just because we want to have sex with you. Soooooo many women are spectacular bores.

[anonbrunette99]

He said I wasn’t boring and he could actually have a conversation with me but we did babe and argument and I did hit him with the “maybe” on plans once or twice but the shift from
Texting me all the time to only once every couple days half ass effort not wanting to see me as often was drastic from how he was before. My gut tells me the argument put him off and he has some attentjon from someone else so doesn’t need me but the attention isn’t consistent so he wants to keep me there so he isn’t alone if she pulls away. Yeah I’m gonna cut my loses

[Opinion Owner]

The argument may have put him off. Having an argument early in the beginning of a relationship can make a person not want to invest any more time in it.

[anonbrunette99]

I grew up with an extremely toxic family and toxic friends so to me arguments are a normal part of life I wouldn’t stop pursuing someone over it, unless I wasn’t really that into them in the first place. But he was into me it was obvious I guess he’s not interested in someone who called him the names I did

[anonbrunette99]

I did threaten to email airport security that he was taking drugs on his flight home as a joke I think that put him off because for the next day or so he didn’t think I was joking at all

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I don’t do arguments either. If people even raise their voice I shut down and just want to leave the conversation and get away from the people.

[Guy13]

Better woman and perhaps more experimental in Nature?

[anonbrunette99]

When you say better woman do you mean looks wise or she’s a better partner than me and yeah I guess he’s clearly not the one

[Guy13]

It is hard to say. Length of time together? Sometimes personalities eventually clash? Guys usually are jumping for a "new buzz". Body Counters and Porn watchers are well known for that behavior. In fact, the one quality to eliminate on the front are Porn watchers...

[anonbrunette99]

We only met ONCE. he was so excited about seeing me again when he got back from his trip he would text me first send me voice messages compliment me and say sweet things then eventually he just stopped trying to get my attention until I was chasing himself but we did have a big argument and I threatened to tell airport security on email that he was trafficking drugs Maybe he wants someone who isn’t crazy

[Guy13]

Crazy... that might do it !!! Keep having fun !!!

[anonbrunette99]

The crazy put him off?

[Guy13]

Most likely... next thing you would be calling "his wife"...

[MrsTurkleton]

He is either interested in someone else, or the excitement has gone from the situation.
It could be both

[anonbrunette99]

I went crazy on him and threatened to email TSA about him bringing drugs on his flight home even though he wasn’t I think that might’ve done it but I was just joking I wasn’t gonna do it but he did get anxious about it

[MrsTurkleton]

That may be a factor …:

[FilmGuy93]

Life, work, needing time to think, wondering whether he wants to date a woman who had an awkward interaction with someone in a movie theater.

[Juxtapose]

Threatening to get him arrested over drugs in an airport is not cool, I can see why he's put off.

[TallAnon]

Looking at the comments, you going crazy, having arguments and threatening him.. probably has something to do with it..
Drama = Next