Guys, my engaged male friend and I have recently become close, and he once told me "biggest mistake was being introduced to you"? what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

this friend and i have become really close recently. we sort of have a flirtationship. once we were talking, and he said "biggest mistake was that I was introduced to you. that we met". what does that mean? is it cause he's engaged?

[caring__1]

Your being in his life has confused him about his choice to marry. He's now having doubts, as he may see going through with the marriage as settling rather than finding what truly works best for him.

Help him identify the differences he sees between you and his fiancee. Help him to learn how to enhance his own relationship rather than just let wandering eyes leap to something new. Suggest they find a qualified therapist who specializes in premarital therapy. That way, they can both learn tools together, enabling them to avoid issues rather than have to fix issues after the fact.

[DannyUk2017]

Means he realised he MADE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE, getting Engaged... Means he want you over his Future wife...

[CallmeTheKnight]

He knows he's gonna cheat and have doubts of his engagement because he knows you want him.

Shame on you

[Twalli]

He's attracted to you and he can't have you because he's engaged and he probably loves his fiancee also. So he's getting married while still being attracted to someone else.

[Guy13]

You are clouding his mind.

[Asker]

confusing him you know? does it mean there are feelings involved?

[Guy13]

I think so but one does not know until one asks. He just got engaged though, right ⁉️

[Asker]

been engaged for a year. but we only got close recently

[Guy13]

He is getting cold feet. I had this kind of thing happen to me and I stayed from Anna for 2 years. I saw her again the wedding day...

[Asker]

oh damn. so he might choose to stay away from me?

[Guy13]

I doubt it. I was you with Anna... Anna was engaged. I just stayed away for 1.7 years until the wedding. I'm good friends with them both now and not just her. He appreciated it too BUT had no idea.

[spartan55]

Why does it matter since he's, you know, ENGAGED?

[Iron_Man]

Ask him

[Asker]

if i could do that, i would've done that by now. hence, why i'm here asking...