If I tell a man I have a masochistic streak and then he becomes quite mean to me and puts me on an emotional rollercoaster is it because he likes me?

[Anonymous]

I’m really confused..

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

If you're uncomfortable around someone then you're probably not compatible with them , may it be friendship , family , work , neighbourly , or romantic relations. I love and respect my neighbours but i'm often times uncomfortable around them so I keep my distance.

[Lionman95]

I think it´s rather his way of trying to please your masochistic streak. The thing many guys know about domination and masochism solely from porn. He therefore tries on you what he saw in porn because that´s the only masochism he knows.

[Anonymous]

Maybe be just a bit more specific.. lol help the guy out. Esspecially when you're getting into the realm of bdsm, you've both got to be vocal about where your boundaries are and what gets you off. My girlfriend loves being manhandled, choked and occasionally slapped across the face, but she'd probably burst into tears if I started shaming her (x Maybe he thinks you like being shamed instead of whatever it is you happen to enjoy

[Anonymous]

What Lionman95 said.