Why a guy who likes me does things he knows I don’t like on purpose?

[Anonymous]

E. g he knows I hate a certain style, and now he is dressing that way (in the past he didn’t have it), he knows I hate that music and now he listens to it. What he wants to prove, is there a meaning? I like him anyway

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is weird that he's doing stuff he knows you don't like just to bug you. A few possibilities:

- He's trying to seem "mysterious" and keep you on your toes so you don't get bored. Like reverse psychology or something.

- He's insecure and wants to act like he doesn't care what you think. But deep down he wants your approval.

- It's some lame power play to get a reaction out of you. He's testing how much crap you'll put up with.

- He's immature and thinks pissing you off is funny or will get your attention.

Hard to say for sure without knowing him better. I'd just be straight up and ask him why the sudden change to annoy you on purpose. See what he says and if he can be honest about his reasons.

If he keeps it up after you tell him it bugs you, then he's not respecting your feelings. You deserve someone who wants to genuinely make you happy, not stir up drama. Keep your eyes open sis!

[laly520]

pretty immature n annoying

he is proving that u can't tell him what he has to do

u will have lot of shitty moments with him in future

[Anonymous]

Men are stubborn by nature, don't expect him to change.

[Asker]

What he wants to prove with it?

[boggboss]

Why do u think he is trying to prove somthing

[Asker]

Why is he doing it out of the blue with a smile on hi face?

[boggboss]

Maybe he is showing you he can't be controlled or told what he can or can't do