The guy I like teases me about liking him, has no idea and acts like he likes me, but has a girlfriend. Why?

[Anonymous]

The guy I like teases me about being 'in love' with him. According to his twin brother, he has no clue I do and is just messing around. He always flirts with me, and holds me close to him by my waist and teases me by saying things like "You're so in love with me. Every time I'm with you, you can't stop smiling and you blush." He acts like he likes me, and tries to tickle me as well knowing I hate it. But he has a girlfriend. Why does he do this if he has a girlfriend? He's been doing this for over a year, and is genuinely a nice guy not a player. Help me out?

[HotStud]

He actually is a player, but you don't want to hear that because you "idealise" him. He has a girlfriend but I bet he doesn't hold you that way when she is around, does he? No, because he is a PLAYER!

He is playing. He wants you to either say you do like him and he might try shifting you. Because he is a player.

Or he is looking for someone better than his current girlfriend, but doesn't want to be single, so he keeps her as his girlfriend until a new one says yes. Because he is a ... PLAYER!

He's a player. You like him. Go for it. See what happens. Learn from it. Enjoy it. He might just be a bit immature and not that much of a player.

But he is still a bit of a PLAYER!

[Dionysos]

Repeat after me next time he does it: "Come see me when you're single again, and you can find out for sure" .

Smile when you say it. Be prepared for his Girlfriend to hate your guts when you steal her BF.

Of course, it might backfire, so feel free to completely ignore free advice. :-) It's worth every penny you pay for it.

[Anonymous]

lol he is a player!

i agree with both posts, if he is a player and you like him do what the guy says lmao! give him some of his medicine back!

been there and done that and found out that he teased me like that because he wanted to know I liked him as well.

he is a player no doubt but... he might actually like you and have genuine interest in you but he needs to get rid of the girlfriend or its going to get ugly.