Why a guy particularly shows his bad habits while he says he likes you? Does he want me to lose interest?

[Anonymous]

He said "I'm gonna dip (tobacco) probably you don't know what does that even means"... I said no I dont... Then he said start dipping and he was like "you're not gonna like this" but I was cool.

Guess he want me to lose interest and get rid of me?

[Ahmed-Fahmy]

it doesn't mean he want you to lose interest
maybe he is trying to be honest with you , showing you his bad side hopping you will accept him with all his bad habits , would you rather if he hide it from you?

[Asker]

He said "I'm not your type I don't deserve you" too... It I was the one who wants to date... Thought he tried pull me away.

[Ahmed-Fahmy]

the I dont deserve you part is a lie... I think we all know that when a guy tell's a girl I dont deserve you its a like the oldest lie in the book to break up with someone I don't know why people still use it. I wouldn't be flattered by it if someone is breaking up with me and it won't make it any better so I think it's pointless to use that word... and yeah if he said that he basically doesn't want to be with you , no way around it

[Asker]

l agree %10000 I took that as rejection. He said "I love you" after a couple hours he said he doesn't deserve me. I got the second shocked. That night was like roller coaster.

[Ahmed-Fahmy]

we lie more often than you think

[Asker]

That's why I left him after he fell asleep in the middle of the night. He texted me "where did I go? baby?" but I never responded him.

[Ahmed-Fahmy]

you probably did the right thing

[Asker]

If he didn't want to be with me why he was giving forehead kisses and he asked me where did i go?

[Asker]

Heyy? Could you answer?

[Asker]

Hello?

[Guy13]

It’s admirable to me…

[Guy13]

No secrets…here’s who I am…I just want you to know so that you may make a fully informed decision.

[Asker]

He prob tried to get rid of me but thanks for your opinion

[Anonymous]

Nah, he knows you love it.

[Asker]

What? Sarcasm is an opinion? LOL