There is a guy at work who looks at me many times, sometimes holds the gaze and sometimes looks away or down. is he shy or nervous?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well, how long have you known each other? He might be fascinated by you, or he may find you attractive. He could also be too shy to approach you. He may have looked down because you caught him staring at you? That is the only possible explanation. Instead of overthinking about this, your best bet would be to approach him. Strike up a casual conversation with him.

If you like him enough and have once establish some level of comfort, you might drop some hints so that he would ask you out.

[Asker]

we know each other few weeks only at work, i talked to him few times and i noticed that he started to be more open with me and starting small talk but not so much so i am confused about how he really feels. i am also older than him in 4 years.

[taraburtch]

yes. at some point its no longer a coincidence. its him checking you out and staring you down wondering if you like him.

[Anonymous]

Probably both, so if you like him, than make a move.

[Asker]

i talked to him few times, he asked me questions and i noticed that he started few times conversation but a small talk so i am not sure if he likes me but i just noticed his body language and it seems that he is attracted (his feet was pointing at me and his whole body).

[Opinion Owner]

That all sounds promising.

[Asker]

maybe he also unsure becuase i am older than him in 4 years so he is afraid to make the first move.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats fine.

[Asker]

an update lol: he is probably on a vacation the whole week and i also go for a vacation so i won't see him few weeks. maybe he will forget about me I don't know but i tried talking to him when i saw him.

[Thepumpkinhead]

Gotta observe him more. That just sounds creepy to me

[Midgetmcwidget]

No idea ask him

[Philyouup]

probably both. talk to him. be a little flirty

[Asker]

i talked to him few times, he asked me questions and i noticed that he started few times conversation but a small talk so i am not sure if he likes me but i just noticed his body language and it seems that he is attracted (his feet was pointing at me and his whole body). when he was talking to me he wasn't smiling but not looking mad so maybe he just try to act cool.

[Philyouup]

maybe a little socially awkward around girls. ?

[Asker]

but i noticed that he talks to other girls normally and laughs.

[Philyouup]

One way to be sure. Ask him

[Asker]

what to ask him? if he likes me?

[Philyouup]

Hey jimmy, how are you? wanna spend some time hanging out?

[Asker]

he is probably on vacation the whole week so i am not going to see him and i also go for a vacation so i won't see him few weeks, so maybe he will forget about me but i tried talking to him when i saw him so i tried.

[Anonymous]

Iys just mean that you're eye catcher...