Is this weird? I feel like it is? but I don't know?

[Anonymous]

So a guy I like will always text me back during the day but after a certain time at night he stops talking to me I’ll be left on delivered and then he’ll never respond unless I text him first… happened 3 times already

[kylee2437]

Have you asked him what his intentions with you are? If this hasn’t been discussed you really have no say because there’s no set boundaries which implies he can handle you basically however you want because that’s what you are allowing him to do until you further discuss what you want with him

[kylee2437]

However he wants*

[Asker]

Very true I don't know we went from flirting to nudes to him freaking out to back to friends and I don't know it’s all weird. If I text him he responds right away but after say 10pm he stops replying and leaves me on delivered and don’t Respond after unless I reach out

[Asker]

Tiring

[kylee2437]

Hmmm maybe you should explore his socials and see if he has a girlfriend he’s hiding? There’s been plenty of guys that have secret girlfriends that have tried talking to me and I’ll call them out on having a girlfriend. Or he may be seeing other people as well.

[Asker]

Yep says taken makes sense

[Fireguy17]

Possibly he goes to sleep, is watching his favorite show, reading and just turns his phone down/off for some quiet time before he goes to sleep.
My wife does that.

[spartan55]

You truly believe his whole world revolves around you. What a surprise.

[Asker]

He has a girlfriend

[spartan55]

Yet you are still griping about not getting enough attention from him?

[Asker]

I’m just confused with the entire situation

[spartan55]

What's so confusing about it? Seems simple from the outside looking in.

[Asker]

I don't know so basically we were talking as friends, went sexual, sent nudes then he freaked out later on threw me in the friendzone and now we’re here it’s all a weird mess

[spartan55]

He has a girlfriend, so it's not really a weird mess at all. Why are you even talking to him at all?

[Asker]

I don't know the guy messaged me first

[Asker]

And I don't know I think because I liked his friendship at first

[spartan55]

What does it matter who messaged first? Like that somehow makes you blameless? Such bullshit! The second you learned he had a girlfriend you should have been out. He's a cheater, and you are knowingly enabling him to cheat. That makes you just as gross. You women have NO shame I swear.

[Asker]

I kept it friendly after the girlfriend

[Asker]

So pls know the facts before coming at me and first of all it seems he talks to many women he don’t care about his girlfriend one bit telling me he has no boundaries

[spartan55]

What facts do I have wrong? So, if he tells you he has no boundaries, and it 'seems like he talks to many women, then it's all good, you are covered right? Are you fucking kidding me? Riight it's ALL his fault. You should get with him so he can cheat on you. I wonder what his girlfriend would think about it? If you had any moral compass you would get away from him. Friends my ass. Like I said: gross.

[Distorted]

I do that all the time. The reason I stop talking to a girl, that I was somewhat interested to talk to, is because I lose my interest or hope. And when I lose either of them, I would just want to completely block her. But I don't block cuz it's wired

[Asker]

He has a girlfriend

[Distorted]

Then why the question? Should clear things up

[Asker]

Yeah forsure he just acts single
To everyone on TikTok

[Distorted]

Then he's not committed to that girlfriend of his

[Asker]

It’s just weird tho he’ll text me back during the day all fast but I’m always reaching out not him and at night just leaves me on delivered until he’s I text him again

[Asker]

Until I text him again*

[Distorted]

How long since you met him irl? Meeting irl would possibly bring things back to the way they were. They say if you don't meet for too long, you feel uncomfortable talking to them online

[Asker]

August 15

[Distorted]

You need to meet him again

[Asker]

I read your? Wrong lol we’ve never met

[Distorted]

Bro go meet. What are you waiting for?

[Asker]

You have no idea how bad I want to but I don’t think he wants me too

[Distorted]

If you haven't even tried, blame yourself

[Asker]

I have and his comment was we haven’t even seen each other nude yet

[Asker]

This was in the past

[Distorted]

Did he say nude? Nah bro, he ain't the one. Better Move on

[Asker]

Yes sucks cause I really liked him

[Anonymous]

He could be sleeping people do sleep at night you know. Here's something your big head and puny little minr hasn't comprehended yet. The world doesn't revolve around you neither does his sleep schedule or his life

[Asker]

He’s got a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Id suspect he has a girlfriend or he's married.

[WhitneySnow]

That is weird

[Asker]

Dude yes

[WhitneySnow]

Totally. Maybe he’s got a girlfriend.

[Asker]

He does I just saw

[Asker]

Crazy I’m dumb

[WhitneySnow]

I’m sorry

[20yearsolder]

He has a wife