Sometimes I enjoy being abused or harassed especially in flirty or sexy ways but sometimes I dislike it. I feel like a hypocrite. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

I feel like oher girls must feel this way because we are submissive and like being taken and controlled but yet many women complain about how men harass and control us. Its just feeling hypocritical for me.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Nah, sometimes you're in a degrading mood, sometimes you're not.

It's like sex. Sometimes you're in the mood, sometimes you're not.

Doesn't make you a hypocrite. It makes you human - complex, varied, and with emotions.

It's fine. Respect yourself and your boundaries.

Intense sex can be draining, and can make an already strained mood much worse. It's okay not to be in the mood for a rough fucking every time. Sometimes you need gentle and loving, too.

[Investigation]

While it's normal to want to be a good woman for your man, it is not normal to enjoy being abused. You should probably seek a psychologist or at the very VERY least recognize that this is not a normal or healthy desire.

[Anonymous]

It's normal human spectrum try and communicate it better perhaps.

[Asker]

Im not very good at that i am very shy

[Opinion Owner]

It happens

[Wise4myage]

That's not healthy.