There was another girl?

[ashlynvv]

I was talking to this guy for about 3 weeks the first week he was really nice always complementing me, but as the second week he started not to care and texting dry and i ask him if there was another girl and he said no. now he told me that there is another girl and i feel so fucking stupid i feel ugly and I don't know what i did wrong. i did everything he asked me to do I don't know what’s wrong w me or what to to do with myself

[Anonymous]

That's actually pretty typical in adult dating. At least, early on, before things get serious. When I first asked out my current girlfriend we were each talking to other people. I still had a date planned with someone else later that same week too. The other people sort of fall by the wayside as you find someone you really click with. It certainly stings if you set your expectations too high, too early. At your age it's not surprising to me that you're taking the rejection a little too personally, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. You didn't do anything wrong and you certainly shouldn't worry about doing the right thing. Just be yourself. He just wasn't the right one for you

[Wise4myage]

I agree, you made yourself too accessible, in the future don't do that. And stop feeling stupid, that does you no good.

[Lynn7dsd]

nahhhhhhh dont feel ugly, i was ditched by many girls that were uglier than me. I realized through research and life experience; people usually go for people that look like themselves or their family members. so often they end up with people that look like them. science says this too so dont get caught up with the 'am i attractive' thing.

[Anonymous]

"I did everything he asked" that's when you start lossing your importance... little girl.