Guys, How do guys find out or catch on about a girl liking them?

[Anonymous]

I’m curious to know how guys “know” a certain girl is crushing on them.

what are some obvious signs?

[Anonymous]

When she puts her hand on my penis.

I’m completely oblivious to when women are attracted to me. After years of growing up having to watch public service announcements and college and career video training about sexual harassment and unwelcome attention, the signs have to be super glaringly obvious for me to make a move. You’ve basically got to have your hand down my pants. I’m not getting fired/getting discharged from the military (when I was in the service)/or possibly going to prison because you say I sexually harassed or assaulted you. I’m just not going to take that risk unless you come straight up to me and you’re just like, “Hey, I think you’re hot, let’s fuck.” Which does happen more than you’d think. It’s not very romantic I know, but I sort of gave up on romance a loooong time ago.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Body language is always a dead giveaway... I've noticed girls subconsciously like to get really close to you when they do... letting her guard down acting extra girly and blushing around you.. Interactions between you two are a little intense... And of course.. The eyes... They tell everything you need to know..

[MrCommodore]

I never realised a girl had a crush, I suspected it once, but that girl was definitely doing a lot of obvious stuff, but even then I wasn't sure.

[FilmGuy93]

Usually when she randomly starts hating us for not acknowledging her feelings.

[Danny_dan92]

Her tossing hints that basically say she wants me to talk to her

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

The girl associates with him

Guys, girls are not just your "friend"

No matter how much they say so

[TroyDT]

I am often so oblivious that she pretty much has to sit on my lap for me to get it.

[Waldoe]

I am pretty clueless, most people are nice to me, some are rude... so I need to be told... lol

[Stevefiveo]

I am usually clueless unless it becomes obvious.

[spartan55]

They tell us.