What a man can only approach if you are alone?

[Justneedtokno]

So I was explaining to by a man that he only would approach if I was alone with my friend why.

As a woman is already a risk being alone in public especially at a certain time.

[FilmGuy93]

It’s less intimidating. Plus, a lot of women’s friends will intentionally cock block and be as unpleasant as possible to men who approach their group.

[Juxtapose]

^^ exactly this.

[KrakenAttackin]

@filmguy93. So true.

[FilmGuy93]

Yep... most women don't realize just how unbelievably unpleasant so many women are to deal with.

[KrakenAttackin]

@filmguy93. Yes. The lesbian who went undercover as a man for 18 months was shocked how brutal women were toward men.

[Justneedtokno]

Let me say it like this I go out with my one best friend. She gets approached by men all the time I don’t stop them from talking or anything I try to interact with the conversation or I walk off just a little bit so they can talk or whatever not seeing a group of women.

[NathanDavis]

he's insecure... and perhaps not experienced

other men will be more confident and sure of themselves, do not have this issue...

[hahahmm]

That's like saying a guy is inexperienced because he never asks out waitresses when in fact maybe he just had enough bad experiences with them that he thinks it's not worth it. Same guy could be approaching women all the time in other situations.

[NathanDavis]

@hahahmm asking out waitresses all the time is quite desperate though...

anyone that has to do that repeatedly is obviously someone that can't do better but to "corner" girls that are just trying to do their job and not asking to be hit on

[AddylynnNightingale]

He can approach me when I'm alone, in a public place. He can't try anything fishy because there are still people around.

[Juxtapose]

Why would I approach a group of women who are going to intentionally try to tear me down as viciously as possible to impress their friends?

[Justneedtokno]

It don’t be a group of women it may be just two

[Justneedtokno]

And nobody staring you down when you think it’s actually brave that you come in approaches in the first place

[Juxtapose]

That's not what most men's experiences are.

[Justneedtokno]

Yeah, I apply the guys that do especially because it’s confident

[Jamie05rhs]

You don't have to be "alone-alone.". Just alone-"ish."

[Googlemyahoo]

If there's more then one send your friend in first and have him act obnoxious. Then you come in and apologize and make him go away and then introduce yourself

[KrakenAttackin]

If you go out with the full bitch -patrol, you will never have a guy approach you.

[Justneedtokno]

Well, I think is quite mean what you said.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Justneedtokno Did I hurt your feelings? Suck it up buttercup.

[Justneedtokno]

I never called you out your name nor was I disrespectful. So it wasn’t necessary for you to say that. A group real women are not like that

[KrakenAttackin]

@Justneedtokno. Yes they are. A group of women together are the ultimate cock block.

[Justneedtokno]

I’m a woman I’ve been in this situation it’s not like that

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno Do you listen to yourself? Men & women aren't the same. If a man tells you what men think he might know more than you do about it.

[Justneedtokno]

@hahahmm I’m not taking away from your experience I’m telling you what I would do in my experience or what has happened in my experience

[Justneedtokno]

@hahahmm Why are you always trying to be mean about things

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno I doubt there is a way I can tell you that you're 100% wrong in 1-2 sentences that you wouldn't claim to be "mean" and it's not worth me writing a page about the point in question.

[Justneedtokno]

@hahahmm
I explained it was my experience just as you explained it’s your experience there’s nothing wrong with that you’re just ready to attack and think that someone’s wrong

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno Dude told you his perception of why you don't get approached when you're in a group. You know, answered your question. You want to turn that into you being a victim & having your feelings hurt. You could've just thought: Okay, this is how men see what is going on & it's not good for me.

[Justneedtokno]

@hahahmm I never said I was a victim in the situation I said we appreciate the guy said do. And he over there called his bitches. I was reactive to that. What if it’s only one or two friends at a time. In my perspective, a guy talks to my friend all the time when we’re out and it’s just the two of us.

[Justneedtokno]

In total, I thought we were just having a conversation I didn’t think there would be worse

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno it is just a conversation. You say people are being mean to you.. to me that's playing the victim. But we can agree to disagree.

[Justneedtokno]

@hahahmm by using certain language I’m harsh people on here you’ve not been on every single question that I’ve posted so you don’t know even when I post it myself I got called out for being black

[Justneedtokno]

It’s not as anonymous as you think

[Justneedtokno]

I’m not a victim I just don’t tolerate they will be disrespectful or mean or whatever for no reason if I’ve never said it don’t say it to me

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno I was only talking about this thread. Unless Kraken did the stuff to you you're talking about elsewhere I don't see how it's relevant tho. Guys tend to be more to the point. It is what it is.

[Justneedtokno]

And that’s great being straight to the point, but it was no cause for the language

[CuriousMufuxka]

Women team up sometimes to make a man feel like shit. Y'all group up, then pretend the victim alone. This of course doesn't pertain to every female..

[msc545]

Two or more of you will tag team a single man

[Justneedtokno]

Please go into detail about tag team a single man?

[msc545]

you can figure it out. I don't mean sexually.

[Justneedtokno]

I don’t know what you mean

[KrakenAttackin]

@Justneedtokno He means do the female interrogation bullshit.

[msc545]

@KrakenAttackin thanks

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545 What makes me crazy is when women pretend not to understand the blatantly obvious.

[msc545]

@KrakenAttackin I think it's a form of trolling actually...

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545. Seriously? So many of these women come off as dumb as potato's with their responses to basic life questions.

[msc545]

@KrakenAttackin They do, but I think that is designed to get responses from men. They can not all be that stupid... I hope...

[Justneedtokno]

@KrakenAttackin do you mean my friends will ask you questions to see if you should be with me yes if they care at the end of the day it’s still my decision it’s not to throw you off or are you just here temporarily or are you here for long term? Do you want to go on a date or you just want to smash tonight? Those are valid questions.

[msc545]

Ask those questions yourself - don't have your friends do it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Justneedtokno. No man wants to stand there while a group of drunk women bombard him with questions to determine if he has enough status to bang their friend.

[msc545]

@KrakenAttackin Exactly - well said!

[Justneedtokno]

No one’s bombarding you with questions we just want to know is this a moment thing or do you want to do is fuck and go. Or are you safe to be around by ourselves?

[msc545]

You need a group of women to tell you this?

[Anonymous]

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