Do men that don't pursue women always end up alone?

[Anonymous]

Or is it true only men that want to be alone end up that way?

[Anonymous]

No not always. What I’ve seen in life - is that generally men even if they are trying to avoid a relationship will end up in a relationship. He’ll wake up one day and just find himself in a relationship and wonder how did this happen. For many men, being alone later in life is more of a choice than an accident.

For men, relationships with women tend to be very easy to slide into, and especially if a man doesn’t pursue them. The older a man gets - the more women there are to purse you. Its simple math, men die sooner than women. Women simply live longer. With a growing and continuous stream of women hunting for a man, eventually many men will just give into the relationship and especially if she is not too demanding, treats him with respect, isn't emasculating, and doesn’t overwhelm him by speaking endlessly.

I think the critical factor that attracts relationships to men - is whether they have a reasonably acceptable appearance and even when they don’t, if they are open to developing a positive rapport, they will end up - not alone. Moreover, if they don’t have unreasonably high expectations for the women and if they possess a reasonable amount of emotional and social intelligence - they will find that they will have to work at not ending up in a relationship with a woman.

Many men who don’t approach women just don’t want the emotional complications. Additionally men’s hormones start to dwindle with age and his life is no longer run by them. Thusly at this point when faced with the choice of pursuing a woman or working on the motorcycle – motorcycle wins. For him it provides piece of mind, predictability and less complication.

Eventually freedom and peace of mind is preferable to the chaos of a relationship. Most men just want to be happy and have the time to do what they want as opposed to spending a life in career slavery and social obligation. Thus as I said, ending up alone is more of a choice than an accident.

[MGTOWmonk]

I certainly hope so. The one good thing about women has always been that if you didn’t want to talk to them they would leave you alone. I’ve never been shy about anything. Not sure why. I guess I just have never cared what other people thought about me. If I ever wanted to approach a woman I would without hesitation, so I have always depended on the timid nature of women to keep the undesirable ones from bothering me. I've known a lot of women. Too many. So many that I really would have rather only known one of them considering they all seem to suffer from the same delusions that make them so incompatible with any reasonable or rational individual. Every experience I had with a any woman after my first relationship was redundant and completely unnecessary but in hindsight must have been an act of fetishistic masochism. Well now that I’m over it and have have decided to avoid all women completely I am really depending on you ladies to maintain your refusal to initiate conversations with men. Especially me. Please leave me alone. I have nothing for you. OK. Just keep your mental illness as far away from me as possible and we can all be happy. Well at least I can be happy. Thanks.

[SkyBlossom]

Yes, and girls that don't get pursued follow suite.

But depends on the guy, if he's a hermit it's guarnateed. But the chances of ending up along drop when you're the normal type fo guy who is out and about, these days it's a level playing field between men and women when it comes to who does the pursuing. So you just might not have to do the initial work of pursuing. But honestly, the type of lady who does all the pursuing and courting is rare.

[Asker]

That doesn't seem very fair. I made a dating profile on eharnony but women don't take the initiative to contact me first.

[SkyBlossom]

I don't know man, I'm not a good person to ask about online dating.

[Peacefullady2011]

What's the matter with you people? Are you f*cking morons?! What self-respecting lady is going to be pursuing a man? Have you men lost your balls and can't even bother to COURT A LADY? That is why so many of you men will end up alone and why so many women feel depressed and lonely. The ROLES that were part of society and accepted in previous generations were there for a reason! It makes society run smoothly. It gives men confidence. It allows the lady to be wooed.

[Asker]

Well back in those days women were snow white virgins and hadn't slept with your Berbers friend, some Guy on the football team, two of your friends and made slutty videos on youtube. I will approach and pursue women that I think meet my moral standards, but I have different standards for women approaching me.

[Cyhhgg]

@Peacefullady2011 username doesn't check out.

[PhilKenSebben]

@Peacefullady2011 haha. That’s right, try to shame us into continuing to be suckers while you women try to take every possible thing you can. Men are more than a means to an end, but that’s all you women think we are. You can’t even be troubled to do half the work

[SocietysBomb]

I think if you want to be alone you'll be alone. If you see that women aren't approaching you, maybe you should try a different tactic and approach them.

[Asker]

Well what I mean is some men pursue what they want out of life and simply aren't social, and they figure women will be interested in them if they're successful and driven and fit and generally a good person.

[SocietysBomb]

but how will any women know they are a good person if they don't approach them?

[Asker]

By making first effort to find out I guess.

[SocietysBomb]

well yea, but I think it goes both ways, you know? Both have to make an effort.

[Asker]

To me making that effort was making an online dating profile.

[SocietysBomb]

lol well then I don't know what to tell you.

[Asker]

I think the correct action is to kill myself. Because I'm hurt being alone and I can't ask women out, so its better for me to die rather than carry on a dishonorable life of not having a family and failing.

[SocietysBomb]

the problem is you don't want to ask a woman out, just force yourself to do it. You only live once. Just some up your courage and do it.

[Asker]

Well what if I wont?

[SocietysBomb]

life goes on.

[LuvBiddy]

No. Just make sure you really like very aggressive girls because that's probably all you're going to get.

[Gregs]

what's pursue tho? you mean leave the house? what about going to where women hang out? then what about talking to a woman, is that alright or is that pursuing already, how about asking a girl for her number during a great conversation, or calling her back, what do you mean by pursuing I don't understand

[Anonymous]

not always. some girls approach guys