Second outing with a guy, he tried to kiss me multiple times even though I rejected all?

[Anonymous]

First, he tried to kiss me and I moved away from him and said no. Then he told me he’d like to kiss me and I said no again. Later, just before I left him I gave him a kiss on the cheek and he told me to kiss him on the lips and I didn’t. Then he asked me again, telling me it shows him that I like him. I told him no again. Is this a red flag? I felt quite uncomfortable

[SteveSmith1985]

Red flag indeed. Definitely a red-flag. This is a red-flag so obvious, this motherfucker might as well have it stamped on his forehead.

There is no halfway decent guy ON EARTH who would ever behave this way.

There are few things more dangerous than a guy who "doesn't take 'no' for an answer. THis is one of those guys. If he gets this rapey on your second-date (when he's presumably still on his best behaviour) then that indicates nothing but bad news.

Red flag for sure. No two ways about it. Nothing can possibly redeem a guy who behaves this way. I don't care how "hot he is" or "how well you connect" or "how sweet he is" or "how well you connect"... I GUARANTEE YOU that this guy is not a good guy and you should not go out with him again. This situation is clear as any situation can be.

Red flag. Don't ignore it. 🙂

[Asker]

I’ve gone back to my home country, I’m glad because this guy was starting to worry me. I’m gonna stop texting him. Thank you for you answer:)

[SteveSmith1985]

I am SOOOOO glad to hear that you're going to stop texting him.

Also, in the future, if you ever feel that a guy (any guy) is "starting to worry you"... you NEED to listen to your instincts. Seriously. Trust your gut when it comes to guys. You already knew what you should do in this situation. You were simply looking for confirmation that your worries were well-founded. What I'm saying is: Going forward, you should act without double-checking. Trust your gut! 🙂

[SunnyHeythere]

You are so one sided and prejudiced it's creepy

[FilmGuy93]

Yes; he’s being pushy and not respecting your boundaries after you told him you weren’t comfortable kissing him on the lips.

[laraWM]

Yes of course it is a red flag. You have already said no 5 times and he still tried one more time.

Did someone witness it? I think you shouldn't see him again where no one can see you

[tfan1]

He’s over pushing his luck. If I was you I would lose this guy otherwise he might be trying something else on you even when you say no. 😬. Don’t fall into his trap - pull the ejection handle and get away from this loser.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

He's a little too desperate. I would end it if he acts like that.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Too desperate.. Sounds like a child asking for candy

[Anonymous]

If no meant no no guy would ever get laid. No doesn't mean no, no means work on the neck, the nipples and try again in 5 minutes. 🤣🤣🤣

[LazerBean]

Obviously it's a red flag.

[Anonymous]

You obviously don't like him too much.

[Anonymous]

get rid of him he sounds like a rapist