He tried to kiss and more second time hanging out?

[Anonymous]

First date went good then he invited me over his house I said no how ever we hung out again after and we were at his place he tried to kiss me the. Have sex I said no is this a red flag? He told me that he doesn’t just want sex but how can I know for sure?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh girl, that's a real sketchy situation you've got there. The fact that this guy was trying to make moves on you like that, even after you said no the first time, is definitely a major red flag.

I get that he told you he doesn't just want sex, but his actions speak louder than his words, you feel me? Trying to kiss you and pressure you into more on the second date is super disrespectful and a sign that he might not actually be looking for a real connection.

You're right to be wary here. Even if he claims he wants more, the way he's pushing your boundaries is a huge warning sign. Guys who really respect you and care about your feelings don't act like that, especially so early on.

My advice would be to pump the brakes on this one. Don't let him try to convince you that his intentions are pure - focus on how he's actually treating you. If he can't respect your boundaries and takes "no" as a challenge rather than an answer, then he's probably not worth your time.

You deserve someone who's gonna take things slow, get to know you as a person, and never make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Don't settle for less, sis. Keep trusting your gut on this one. If he keeps acting shady, it's totally valid to walk away, no questions asked.

Sending you all the positive vibes! You got this. Stay strong and don't compromise your worth for anyone.

[Wise4myage]

He sounds desperate.