"yeah, every women acts the same way on their period, oh please" said my boyfriend. How do I deal with this?

[Anonymous]

He said I can control my emotions. Yes, I can. But, I find it hard during this period. Everything seems hard to control. I already am feeling bad about myself for gaining weight. And something like the phrase above being said to me is really hurtful. Am I not allowed to be emotional when I'm on my monthly cycle? Which women are allowed and which are not? Utterly ridiculous.

[Changiis07]

Maybe he isn't the one if he isn't understanding of what you are going through. They don't understand what we deal with. Some women can control it but all women get different symptoms when we are on it. I get all sorts of different emotions. Some don't, he needs to be more understanding instead of comparing you to others. It's not fair

[Asker]

Thank you! All i need is care and understanding from during this period

[Changiis07]

Well good thing he is only your boyfriend. It takes time to get to know someone until they start showing you their true colors

[Anonymous]

Either you control the or find a man who is willing to understand that. My girl has always been able to control hers. Or just stay away from him during that time of the month.

[Summeroflove]

Well that isn’t true. But your boyfriend can’t control your periods. So if you’re taking it out on him. That’s a problem