Like you normally would, she's not sick or anything. Periods are normal, though I'll admit you'll have to be a little bit more considerate of the pain that she's going through and also a bit more kind. To probably check in on her and ask her how she is. Also I wouldn't make fun of her for being on her period or tease her in any way. If her back hurts then Just give her a back massage. Also if she's a little lazy then don't mind it, she's Just having aches and pains in her body and girls tend to get a little slow during their periods. She doesn't mean to though, she's Just tired especially with all those aches and pains and cramps. It really does get exhausting.
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I like when my boyfriend is sweet and acts concerned and cuddles me. He cooks for me and we stay in bed and watch movies. I also really want a lot of sex on my period and he’s pretty good about that which I appreciate.
Kindly, gently. It varies from person to person how we feel during our period. Personally I easily get sad, so getting hugged a lot and such would make me feel more loved. Give comfort and love
Thto understand that their are crazy emotions Nand mood swings and that bloating and cramping suck and the major fatigue sucks. At least for me. I have endometriosis and just want some cuddles, heating pad and be lazy while someone comforts me And I get hungry and need hot jet baths and get migraines and it isn't just "oh I got my period " for every girl. For at least 2 days it's horrible and the heavy bleeding sucks. So we want to be treated gently and with understanding that it can be brutal and it sucks
Sweet question, you should be understanding if she acts moody or even bitchy because the hormones really mess us up, im not saying you should let her abuse you but you can show affection for sure. Give her chocolates, open her favorite tv show and cuddle for hours, periods are the time of the month when women can get lazy without feeling guilty so get lazy with her! Make her feel good about herself, i don’t know why but i and many girls i know feel hideous on our periods and get so insecure. If you make her feel beautiful she would be happy, hope it helps x
I’ve never had a boyfriend before but every time I am in the stage of getting to know a guy, as soon as they find out I’m on my period, they ghost me and go sleep with someone random. And when I mention it to them, they call me a bitch and tell me to get on birth control if I don’t want periods... I’ve always wanted just once for a guy to stay...
Personally, I find it sweet when he entertains my weird food cravings during or before my period comes around. He's becoming good at guessing my cravings as of late.
My food cravings are satisfied after a couple of bites, he ends up having to finish the rest of it. When I go overboard in ordering mine, he gives me the look of "omg, I have to finish that?"
Yesterday was the icing on top... at the crowded fast food joint, disregarding the looks from the next tables (you know with COV-19), he was just watching me happily dipping my curly fries in the vanilla scum of his root beer float, while I sip my own regular root beer.
Do what she tells you. If she want ice cream, get it. She wanna cuddle, cuddle up. Rub her back. It hurts. She wanna cry, let her cry. She wanna do the nasty, lay down a towel. We're all different, our period experience is all different. So if she telling you how you can help, follow directions.
Pretty much approach with caution! My ex husband had anger problems and I always used to try and approach him Cautiously before I upped and left with the kids. What annoyed me is the rare occasion that I would be irritable he would see that as an opportunity to wind me up more. While men don’t HAVE to treat women differently at all during theirs periods, out of pure kindness I’d hope my male friends are kind, and patient with me x
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