Guys, what does it mean when a guy says “I don’t think its a good idea for us to talk?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Just reading this thread gives me a headache.

This is why long distance relationships don't work. Just accept that this friendship or whatever it is is over, and move on. And only date LOCALLY going forward. That way, you can see each other in person all the time, and you won't have to deal with people disappearing for months at a time.

Most of the misunderstandings and drama in your relationship (whatever kind it was) with this guy are due to the distance, which made communication difficult, so there's not much point in trying to sort it out. Long distance doesn't work.

[FilmGuy93]

He thinks there's something inappropriate, or at the very least potentially inappropriate about your interactions with him.

[JPresidente]

It usually means that he has already made up his mind about something and doesn't want to discuss it further.

[Asker]

We didn’t discuss anything tho lol I just didn't see him when he came go visit the city and i guess he got upset.

[Asker]

He text me he was coming to the city and that he wanted to see me but then i told him i was “busy” because i didn't think it be a good idea to see him after everything and then when i changed my mind he said that he was going to be busy showing a friend around. .. and that was pretty much it. After that i tried to meet up with him and text him i think we need closure to talk about things and to continue our friendship.

[Asker]

so i guess he doesn't to discuss things between us but i just kept telling him that i missed him and would text him normally but i would have never thought he would be upset?

[Finchie40]

It depends on his situation, is he involved with someone else?

[Asker]

Nope

[Finchie40]

It’s hard to say , He either doesn’t want to talk to you anymore or he is implying that he is attracted to you and can’t control himself , It’s hard to say for sure

[SlothySlob]

It's the nice version of "bitch get out of my face"

[Asker]

basically, i was texting him a lot.

[AndrésC64]

It probably means that you should call him immediately because he wants to talk to you constantly. Get on the phone right now! Or better yet, go see him.

[MRME6]

He doesn't want to even be friends because he wants to close the door completely on the possibility of a relationship.

[Asker]

a relationship? what does that have to do with anything?

He wanted to see me and i told him i was busy.

[MRME6]

A relationship can mean friendship too hey

[Asker]

yeah true the thing is that it took for surprise since he wanted to meet up but then i told him i couldnt i just didn't think it be a good idea so do you think he’s just mad?

[BarryLiverstone]

He doesn’t want to talk. Thinks it’s not a good idea.

[Asker]

But does it mean he is ending our friendship? Or he just doesn't feel like talking to me for now?

[BarryLiverstone]

Depends on the circumstances. He doesn’t wanna talk rn

[Asker]

Well, he came to my city from the UK and said he asked if i wanted to meet up and i told him i was “busy” because i couldnt face him after somethings that have happened between us. And then when i changed my mind to meet up he told me he was gonna be busy showing his coworker around (which was true) And then i started to annoy him by messaging him and sending him audio messages tell him why i couldnt face him and that i missed him to the point where i was acting like he wasn't even ignoring me for 2 months.

[boobliker]

just get on with the sex then talk or not as the case may be

[Anonymous]

she's sending a clear message that she is not interested in you.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, He is sending a clear message.

[Guardian45]

Sounds like he's breaking it off with you

[krisluv]

He has a wife or about to get hitched.