Most of me is my soft side, so I don’t know. It’s not like it’s a bad thing. My guess is they’re getting “soft” mixed up with “feminine”. Then again, I don’t mind showing my feminine side either. Loving cute stuff makes me no less of a man. No man is 100% tough or masculine, and no woman is 100% soft or feminine. Everyone has their own amount of each side.
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Some also have a dark side
Soft=weak.
Weak=total bitch.
total bitch= MY bitch for life.
This is not the truth but from what I know, this is how some men view others
Because to them vulnerability = potential pain, and being taken advantage of.
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It's the reason why older guys want to date younger woman they know younger woman are stupid.
Because society tells them not too. Men make fun of other men that do that. And women tend to avoid and reject men that are that way… for the tough manly man that are bad boys.. so it’s never a win win for the “soft” caring, dudes..
The word "Masculinity" instantly springs to mind! lol
Probably because a lot of people (not everyone) judges then on it 🫡
they have been told since birth that it is a sign of weakness.
Because women see "soft" as weak, also you will use any weakness against us.
We are not your girlfriend's.
I do not, but I only share it with those who prove themselves worthy.
Society easily mocks such guys or takes advantage off em
Because a lot of you use our weaknesses against us so we gotta trust you first.
For the same reason women are afraid to admit that they are on average physically weaker than men.
Because you use it against us, before leaving because you don't like our soft side.
because we get it tossed in are face when we show it its like when a lot of women want the nice guy then get kicked to the curb
Because women take advantage of this and use it against us.
Because women take advantage of our vulnerability
If girls don't take advantage of our soft side, then this wouldn't be the case.
Because there's no utility in showing it. People take your niceness for softness generally and think they can exploit or manipulate you.
Women are disgusted by weakness in men
You mean like a soft dick?
They don't want to appear weak to others.
They are humans too!
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