Why so many men are afraid to admit they have a soft side?

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Why so many men are afraid to admit they have a soft side?

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clampfan101 Follow
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Most of me is my soft side, so I don’t know. It’s not like it’s a bad thing. My guess is they’re getting “soft” mixed up with “feminine”. Then again, I don’t mind showing my feminine side either. Loving cute stuff makes me no less of a man. No man is 100% tough or masculine, and no woman is 100% soft or feminine. Everyone has their own amount of each side.

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OfDeath Follow
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Some also have a dark side

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- clampfan101
  
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  We all do. We wouldn’t be human without both sides.
  
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Sour-rose Follow
Guru Age: 31 , mho 43%

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Soft=weak.
Weak=total bitch.
total bitch= MY bitch for life.
This is not the truth but from what I know, this is how some men view others

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Because to them vulnerability = potential pain, and being taken advantage of.

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Alwayreckles93 Follow
Yoda Age: 33 , mho 39%

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It's the reason why older guys want to date younger woman they know younger woman are stupid.

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motownplayer2000 Follow
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Because society tells them not too. Men make fun of other men that do that. And women tend to avoid and reject men that are that way… for the tough manly man that are bad boys.. so it’s never a win win for the “soft” caring, dudes..

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EmmaMary Follow
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The word "Masculinity" instantly springs to mind! lol

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- Andres77
  
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  Being masculine and being a good man are not synonymous.
  
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- TonightYouu
  
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  Being a good man is overrated
  
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- EmmaMary
  
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  @TonightYouu
  
  I can assure you that my husband is by far, more than just being a "good man".
  
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- TonightYouu
  
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  Im certain you were the best he could get he can’t afford not to be good
  
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- EmmaMary
  
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  @TonightYouu
  
  Are you just plain being obnoxious or what?
  
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- TonightYouu
  
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  I stand by it.
  
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- StrongMale
  
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  @EmmaMary Right? Thanks for saying it.
  
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- EmmaMary
  
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  @StrongMale
  
  Thanks for saying what exactly?
  
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- StrongMale
  
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  Thanks for saying, “The word "Masculinity" instantly springs to mind! lol”
  
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- EmmaMary
  
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  @StrongMale
  
  It's a pleasure indeed! 😂
  
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- TonightYouu
  
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  @StrongMale you’re welcome
  
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Summeroflove Follow
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Probably because a lot of people (not everyone) judges then on it 🫡

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exitseven Follow
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they have been told since birth that it is a sign of weakness.

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Fromdusktilldawn Follow
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Society easily mocks such guys or takes advantage off em

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KrakenAttackin Follow
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Because women see "soft" as weak, also you will use any weakness against us.
We are not your girlfriend's.

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TroyDT2 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 30

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I do not, but I only share it with those who prove themselves worthy.

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Juxtapose Follow
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Because a lot of you use our weaknesses against us so we gotta trust you first.

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Grond21 Follow
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For the same reason women are afraid to admit that they are on average physically weaker than men.

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Guanfei Follow
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Because you use it against us, before leaving because you don't like our soft side.

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- Pot8o
  
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  Can confirm. This has happened to me multiple times.
  
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jirwin7979 Follow
Yoda Age: 46

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because we get it tossed in are face when we show it its like when a lot of women want the nice guy then get kicked to the curb

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msc545 Follow
Master Age: 39

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Because women take advantage of this and use it against us.

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TonightYouu Follow
Xper 5 Age: 27

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Because women take advantage of our vulnerability

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Aiko_E_Lara Follow
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If girls don't take advantage of our soft side, then this wouldn't be the case.

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Anonymous
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Because there's no utility in showing it. People take your niceness for softness generally and think they can exploit or manipulate you.

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Pot8o Follow
Xper 4 Age: 42 , mho 31%

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Women are disgusted by weakness in men

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- Alwayreckles93
  
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  No woman we are disgusting when you live us for younger woman 😡😡😡😡😡
  Maybe older woman we are the best👍
  
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Daniela1982 Follow
Master Age: 38 , mho 54%

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You mean like a soft dick?

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- EmmaMary
  
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  🤣🤣🤣
  
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Fireguy17 Follow
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They don't want to appear weak to others.

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Alltheflowers84 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 42

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They are humans too!

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EaterPeter Follow
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Women are master manipulators

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- Daniela1982
  
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  @EaterPeter And men are master baiters.
  
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- EaterPeter
  
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  Bcoz women are master manipulators? *
  
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- EaterPeter
  
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  @daniela1982 thank you for happy 😊 ending 😉
  
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- EaterPeter
  
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  Thanks for likes!
  
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- EaterPeter
  
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  We don't get to see you as we can be open with you about everything
  
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- EaterPeter
  
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  There seems to be conflict of interest with more than few things
  
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Andres77 Follow
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You have to earn it.

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- Andres77
  
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  We’re not afraid, in general, but you should only make yourself vulnerable to people that have earned your trust.
  
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CubaPirate Follow
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I really can't tell in this day and age

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shortster Follow
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They see it as weakness.

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jimmy2 Follow
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Most are scared of it

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Calenderagressive Follow
Xper 4 Age: 25

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¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ i admit it quite often lol

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AddylynnNightingale Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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Society.

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Aakash_Hangargi Follow
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Bc we are men 😂

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- Aakash_Hangargi
  
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  Lol we already know who that apple guy is 😉😂
  
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- UnknownGagsUser
  
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  Maybe he’s a new guy , dont ya think? 😂
  
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- Aakash_Hangargi
  
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  Na i have eagle 🦅 eyes
  
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Jamie05rhs Follow
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I'm not afraid.

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