Should I remain a good guy?

[Anonymous]

I struggle to find a nice pretty girl.

It’s because I’m a good guy. Women don’t like that shit. I also can’t be bothered to be unpredictable with a girl or like being a dick.

I know I’ll be single forever for this

Stay being a nice guy

Change

[sunflower00]

You say you’re a nice guy, but then in the comments you’re calling girls a ‘bitch’ and in your question it gives the vibe that you seem to believe you should be entitled to sex or girls because you’re a ‘nice guy’ - which kind of shows you aren’t a nice guy, you just pretend to be one…(self proclaimed nice guys always end up actually being the worst guys in my experience).


That will come across as fake. Girls love genuine nice men, who have manners, who don’t act entitled, and who are actually kind rather than guys who put on a fake persona to try to get laid.


Also, someone in the comments linked an Andrew Tate video. Andrew Tate is a horrible man, he’s violent, sexist, and predatory. He has 0 respect for any woman and has ALLEGEDLY abused women. If you follow this guys advice I can promise you that you will have an even lower chance of getting a girl…a very very very low chance. Women hate Andrew Tate and if you act like him you will certainly get nowhere, it’s embarrassing

[Asker]

Andrew rate is fine. He gives a lot of good advice for young men. He gets more girls than any of us could get, he’s obviously doing things right

[Asker]

Also women he’s been with have said he’s been respectful.
Also that girl is a bitch for writing such a hateful useless comment.

[sunflower00]

The only girls he gets are girls who would have sex with anyone. She is not a bitch, it’s true this is cringe worthy and chronically online and if you’re going to act entitled to sex and girls then staying single is a good option tbh. Andrew Tate does not give good advice to young men, he teaches them to be misogynistic, violent, hateful, to not show emotion or express themselves and to be angry all the time and a disrespectful unkind person. Not good advice at all

[Asker]

I’m a virgin I don’t look for sex. I’m saving that till marriage. How’s this cringe? You think the women of today share my values. None of them do. I also have my shit together so I’m perfectly entitled to believe I deserve to find myself a really nice girl and there’s nothing you can do about that.

[Asker]

I feel like he teaches us the strength that’s missing today in younger men.

[roxbby]

I'm telling you... as a female with lots of female friends, absolutely no one likes him. If you mention Andrew Tate in a positive light beyond the vague idea of working hard, women will... run away. He does NOT get tons of girls, and if he does, it's definitely women you wouldn't want if you had standards.

[sunflower00]

@roxbby agreed

[Anonymous]

Just try to be a genuinely nice person overall. Don’t aim to be a “nice guy”, it might come across as fake to some people.

[Asker]

Fair enough. But I don’t act or anything

[Anonymous]

I saw this video, maybe it will help. I know this individual is under scrutiny for his comments on various topics but what he says in this video is facts.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-lFHnW1opWI

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t be nice, be real. Still use your manners and still be generous. But being ‘nice’ is fake af. Girls don’t like fake

[CuriousMufuxka]

I'm going to give you the best advice.. Don't take any advice! Fuck what I or anyone else that answers your question says and figure it out for yourself.

[Anonymous]

Damn, can you be any more cringe-worthy?

Yeah, stay single. You are probably doing everyone a favour.

[Asker]

Yeah keep using guys for free drinks

[Asker]

Bitch

[Asker]

by the way I’m a virgin waiting till marriage, I doubt you could last that long slut.

[sunflower00]

See someone who gets extremely defensive & reactive like this and immediately switches to calling women a bitch and a slut etc. is 1000% not a nice guy

[Anonymous]

The women who don't have garbage personalities, like men who treat them well. Toxic people gravitate towards other toxic people.

You can be a good guy without being a weak, timid, whiney man. That is what women don't like.

[Guy13]

Yes of course. Why wouldn’t you⁉️