Should I stop being the "nice guy"?

[Brandon77]

I am tired of being the "nice guy". I am tired of doing all the work in the relationship and not getting anything in return. I am tired of being caring, considerate, loving and all of that. I'm tired of being the corny/cute boyfriend. The girl always ends up hurting me. I am not a pushover, unconfident (I am actually more of the "alpha male" type-Tall, muscular, Deep voice, charismatic, Funny and a gentleman.)

I give space and all that so I know for a fact I'm not clingy. I'm not boring I am actually the opposite; spontaneous.

What I am really asking is, Should I start being an a**hole? Should I stop everything that I listed above? I'm tired of all of this.

OR should I keep doing the same thing, keeping my head up and remaining optimistic (yet miserable)? Should I keep being this friendly alpha?

[TheDigitalSaint]

If your girlfriend is doing something that you find unacceptable, there's nothing more manly than to tell her to knock it off. You need to be able to threaten to leave if she doesn't shape up. Women love men that don't put up with their occasional antics and call them out on bad behavior. If does doesn't respond, leave and find a girl who appreciates you for your qualities.

[ladsin]

Lol it's a mix ifbur just a straight a**hole I won't get anything either You gtta pretend to be a nice guy but an a**hole underneath, I know what your talking bout man, if You don't wanna do it don't your feelings will almost never be reciprocated

[Anonymous]

No don't be a jerk ! Its only because some girls feel the power and how they can control the relationship and it gets to their heads >:/ . Stay as you are right now because you'll find someone that will get you. Besides in the long run players stay alone and good guys in the end will have a great relationship. Just don't be one of those jerks we don't need anymore.

[chiquitawapa91]

very true. they don't have real friends...

[chiquitawapa91]

you have to make a clear image that an alpha male isn't always a player/smooth talker. sometimes it makes girls insecure. damn, where can I find guys like you? or you just credit yourself but you're none of the above? ha ha jk xP

look for the right person. the one who doesn't take your personality for granted

[Brandon77]

Probably one of the more uplifting thing that has been said to me on here. Thank you.

[chiquitawapa91]

you're very welcome :)

[emmiroxursox]

keep doing all the things listed above, just do them less often...

[glamphotog]

The real nice guys don't ask for anything in return.

[Brandon77]

I just know that I deserve something in return though.

[Saber6]

sure why not. girls like bad boys.