If a guy initiates sex early does that mean he doesn't care about the relationship?

[Anonymous]

By early I mean day that he met her.

[MrOracle]

Often, yes, that's what it means. If you give a guy sex who hasn't earned it over time, then you shouldn't be surprised to find that you have been used for sex. YOU, the woman, are the gatekeeper of sex, and if you lower your price, you lower your value.

All guys want sex - and most women too - but most guys won't respect you if they think your price is low and that men can get sex from you easily. It won't stop the from taking the sex, they just won't give you the relationship.

Never confuse sexual interest with romantic interest - those are two very different things.

[Anonymous]

As men, generally sex is in the back of the mind on any meeting, regardless of whether or not we would hypothetically be interested in the future. What this means though, is that you should NOT give into it and expect something to come of it later. It MIGHT, or it might not. There's no hard and fast rule.

If he gets pushy or excited, just let him know that you're in this for the right reasons, and want to get comfortable first. If he's dated good women before, he should understand that.

[Anonymous]

So it’s the first day of you guys meeting and he’s already asking for sex? Seems sus. The fact that he’s rushing into it too soon shows that he doesn’t take the relationship seriously (unless there was already a prior agreement and consent that you guys are gonna hook up on that first day).

[Surely]

Either the woman is giving off the wrong vibes. Or the guy is just a horny dog!

[Anonymous]

That's correct, he's just out to get laid and move on.