Would you say he’s jealous?

[Bratz1211]

I speak to this guy and I’m not sure what we are. I posted something about a date and he was acting weird by ignoring me and stuff. Asked him if he’s annoyed he said “nah.” I then said it’s not even a big deal and I’ve cancelled it. He then replied “ok if it’s not a big deal enjoy?” Would u say he’s jealous?

[SnowedIn]

Probably jealous. But, here's the larger question I think. The guy who was ignoring you: are you crushing on him and/or want a relationship with him? See, guys want some mystery and some chase, but also not so much what I would call games. I'm not saying what you did was a game. But I could see a guy not liking that. It's possible that he wanted a date with you, saw your post about a date and thought his chances were zero. And was upset about it.

[mickmrly]

He’s probably a bit jealous, I’d say he’s a little unsure of where he stands. If he wants to just chat with you he should have been more enthusiastic for your date, the way he’s acting is a bit jealous instead. I don’t know why he doesn’t just make a decision and ask you out if he wants to.

[Bethany22]

If you reassured him that the date with another guy isn't a big deal, then he has no reason to be jealous

[Gentleman900]

To me it seems like you are wasting your time. You are 25 and you are young. Don't let him stress you out and you should consider it a red flag if you have to ask strangers whether or not he's jealous. Take my advice, If he's into you, you wouldn't be questioning "What are we?".

[Selena1987]

Exactly
I agree with you

[hafinjun]

It doesn't matter, your talking to someone with issues, you haven't gone out or slept together unless you were sexting. and he's throwing himself on the floor kicking and screaming, if that's how he acts when you have nothing. Between you, imagine if you dated, or worse , had sex. I see you in a brick room with steel door, and that may be underestimating it. Obviously he's not big on communication.

[Summeroflove]

A date with him or someone else? You canceled a date with someone else because of him? I am a little confused.

I really don't enjoy being around jealous people. I have no idea

[Bratz1211]

No I had a date with someone else, so he was being funny about it ignoring my messages. But I cancelled the date and told him that, he was still being petty by saying enjoy and stuff if u read it properly.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I don't know why he was doing that. But you should not let someone else dictate what you do.

[Sixgunsound]

I’m pretty sure I’ve answered this question five or six times.

[bingbongbangbung]

Maybe he wants validation or has mixed feelings so they act hot and cold. Although that's usually what you women do lol

[Caps_d_ed]

I'd say things like that when I'm jealous. Maybe he's not totally sure either about what you two are. But he doesn't like the idea of seeing someone else in his place.

[RealMarek]

Why not ask him what the two of you are? Why have the ambiguity and associated drama?

[loveslongnails]

You seem to know a lot of very immature guys. Ever notice that?

[Sparkie460]

Yeah I'd say he's jealous. I'm pretty sure he has feelings for you

[spartan55]

Do you want him to be jealous?

[bowenw]

It seems like he is jealous.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, he is jealous

[athelete_7]

I ll go with what real merk said.

[athelete_7]

*Marek

[simptopia]

he's sounding and acting mighty jealous

[innerman]

U like him
He likes you not

[saffoler]

Of course.

[Bratz1211]

U think he’s mad at me?

[saffoler]

I don't know if it is that strong.

[TrillXHippy]

Yeah sure

[Kittykat800284]

He likely is