Okay so based on what you posted and reading through the other answers I'd say there's two possibilities 1. Yeah he got a bit jealous because he likes you and the idea you dating someone else bothered him but he didn't want to admit it so instead he just shut down and gave you the cold shoulder. Like from what I read you guys have fooled around but are no strings or whatever just friends with benefits kind of thing but a lot of people can't really do that. They will say it's cool and that it won't bother them or that they won't get attached but like I said a lot of people think they can do that but when it really happens they can't handle it and they end up getting jealous or angry about it. So that is a possibility, the other possibility is 2. That he actually just doesn't care and that when you ask him what's up or if he's upset, he's not and when you persist it just annoys him. Like he may not care and you fishing for an emotional response from him just puts him off and he might feel like "geez what's with her I told her it's whatever and she just goes on and on about it, like enough already". So in that case he's not jealous he's just annoyed and he's over the the whole thing. Well that's what I got for ya, hope it helps and everything works out for you either way.
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He’s never really been like this with me or just ignored me like this. When we had issues he’d talk. However with this it’s like he’s different and just very cold ignoring me and stuff, acting like he doesn’t seem bothered and kept on telling me to enjoy. He also messaged me first complimenting my picture then deleted the compliment as soon as he saw the dating story I put up. Then after the argument he put me on his private story.
He may actually really like you a lot then and maybe he thought you two were getting closer even though he never said it and he may have thought that you had feelings for him too and then all of a sudden he sees you dating someone else and secretly felt betrayed by you but he doesn't want to admit it now especially because he knows you don't feel the same about him. I mean because if he admits he was jealous or angry it would be admitting that he had feelings for you that you didn't share for him and that would make him feel foolish for misreading you twos relationship. To me from what you said he's being cold and distant and people usually do that when their feelings have been hurt but they don't want to admit to it.
I’m not sure it’s been 2 weeks now we haven’t spoke, cos he just ignored me again, so I left it now. But like I said soon after he adds me to his private story then and he constantly watches all my stories. Even posted him hanging out with girls the other day on his private story which he never does! I didn’t give a reaction tho. I do miss him but I don’t wanna text him first.
Plus he never just ignores me like this. I know he’ll only ignore people if somethings wrong. Also he opened my message and ignored me starlight away, when normally he’d take few hours to open it. I just knew he was annoyed.
Sounds to me like his feelings got hurt and now he's trying to get back at you by acting like he doesn't care and that he never did and showing you see I can do the same thing, I can go out with other girls. This is all very complicated and I don't know him like you do so it's very hard to say for certain by my gut tells me that you did something to really hurt him or upset him and now he's giving you a taste of your own medicine so to speak. Also though there's the fact that you two weren't in a serious one on one relationship, you guys should of both had the freedom to date around or if either of you wanted more, one of you should had said so and made your feelings know to the other. At this point unfortunately I feel like there's be a lot of damage done to any kind of future relationship friendly or romantic. You seem very interested in getting to the bottom of this whole thing which says to me that you must have some strong feelings for him, stronger than maybe you thought you had to begin with even. Otherwise I feel like you'd just move on or agree to disagree with him and just go back to being strictly friends this time around instead. As I said though you know him and I don't so I would say trust your gut feeling. He's definitely upset with you, exactly why and how bad I can't say 100% but it may be time to throw in the towel on this guy and move on, it's just ashamed that you two might not end up being able to be friends.
No I don't think he's jealous. It kind looks like you were trying to get under his skin and he wasn't taking the bait.
If you expected him to be jealous or you were looking for a emotional response to see if he cares about you, then it didn't work. If that is something want in man then he's not the one.
I'm not sure. But there's more then one meaning for the word mates. Your useing it as another way to say friends he useing it as another way to say boyfriend/ girlfriend. It definitely sounds like your having some miss understanding in this conversation your having with him.
I think I saw this before. He seems uninterested. He also seems like he's a kid. Uneducated. Maybe he was only interested in you as a friends with benefits. Since you're not a benefit anymore, he doesn't care.
If you know the other person in person just make a casual visit around his neighbourhood or work time and say hi if you only know him in internet just a hi what's up would suffice
sorry I don't seem to be able to make out what the fuss is, have you got a boyfriend and you think that he is over reacting,
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Basically I posted a story that I’m going on a date and as soon as I did this he deleted his message (me and him) I don’t know what we are but we talk and see each other we also did stuff. But we never put a label on anything so I don't know if he’s annoyed at me judging by these texts.
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