Friend with benefits very confusing?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy who says we are friends with benefits. he’s very on and off especially after having sex. Majority of the time

He texts and says I can’t do the physical side of things , but want to stay in touch with you. Why would he want to stay in contact if he doesn’t require or want anything?

[Bethany22]

In order to string you along for when he does want sex

[spartan55]

Because he is fucking someone who won't let him fuck you at the time.