If a guy gets a lot of female attention & is a bachelor but he's been pursuing you for a year what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

He has a lot of short term relationships and One night stands etc but he's been pursuing me for a year, I've never given in. Is that why?

[Summeroflove]

He does not seem like someone whose of good moral character if he has a lot of one night stands. If you want to make a move on him if you're into him then do that. But if he asks you for sex especially too early just dump him.

If someone wants sex on the first date or really before marriage. Personally I don't really want them anymore. There are plenty of people who are into doing that kind of thing.

But sure I suppose asking him on a date and seeing how it goes only i you're into him

If not then just ignore him

[Asker]

Why pursue me when he can get any woman?

[Summeroflove]

I have no idea. I would just leave him be.

[Summeroflove]

Honestly he is just wanting sex. If that is what he does. If you have told him to leave you alone and he can't take no for a answer then that might be where he is harassing or stalking you now.

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like he's genuinely interested in pursuing something more with you. You probably ought to consider whether you're in a place in life to handle a relationship though. I know that I would be extremely turned off if a woman I was talking to for a year still had doubts about whether I was interested in her.

[Asker]

Or can he just be really attracted

[FilmGuy93]

Anything is possible. You have to be physically attracted to someone to want to pursue an emotional connection with them. It’s not like being attracted means he can’t be open to having something more with you.

[Asker]

What if its just for a one night stand though or not something serious. Could a guy pursue you for a long time without wanting something serious?

[FilmGuy93]

He could, but it’s not very likely. There are just better ways to spend your days, you know?

[Midgetmcwidget]

No idea, ask him or his friend guys are gossips. Some worse than women

[Anonymous]

Lol @ you thinking you're somehow special to him. And @30-35 no less.

[Asker]

Don't be jealous