My brother is pissed because I hung out with one of his friends. The guy is really nice and we just talked but when I got home my brother started cursing and telling me not to hang around his friends. I don't get it. Later he said sorry and that he doesn't trust them.
Of course- why would they be my FRIENDS if I didn't trust them? I mean, trust has levels; there's a difference between "I trust you with my dog for the weekend" and "I trust you with my life", but what's the fear here- that they're going to make a pass at her? That they're going to RAPE her? That they'll bonk her over the head and steal her car?
It wasn't that long ago that I WAS a teenage boy; I remember how they think. Do they have an extremely strong desire for sex and power? Yes. Do they lose the ability to think and act with basic human morality? Not if they're worth a damn.
Granted, my sister is older than me, and can take care of herself; that may be coloring my opinion a little. But geez, how sexist do you have to be?
Most of the guys with sisters I have been friends with aren't really comfortable with trusting their sister or friend with each other. The thing is that it's two opposite genders and someone or the other is very like to slip. Last year, I visited an old friend and by chance, his female cousin happened to be there. I don't know where and how she got my number and the first thing she texted was 'hey! Do you mind if we talk a little? Please don't tell my cousin about me texting you.'
I didn't proceed with her because I'm good friends with her cousin and he'd probably won't like it.
As a guy, if I had a sister and if I'm protective enough of her, I'd get a bit tensed if she hung out with a friend of mine. Guys know how other guys think, at least most of them. :D
The whole cussing you thing is too much. Having said that, since they are his friends, I wonder if he knows what they will try is why he doesn't trust them around you.
I'm an only child
I'm just here for the points lol
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I have a younger sister. Always got raised with the concept of make sure you trust your friends alone with your sister. Most of em im comfortable with haven’t found myself thinking of a mate as a dickhead
u I've been the friend... and he said " I do trust you with my sister..." and kept staring at me for about six extra seconds, lol
I have no sisters though
He’s jealous. Nothing wrong with it. He needs to calm down
I hate my friends and I don't trust my sister.
Do I trust my friends around my sisters? Yes.
Do I trust my sister around my friends? No.
I found this year that she has slept with two of my closet friends.
sounds like he is just looking out for you, He see them at their worst and doesn't them treating you like they do other girls...
I would not interfere as long as the interest is genuine and intent is to marry. No lust
growing up we both used to share our friends... it was a mutual thing
I don't trust my sister.
That's both weird and creepy.
most of the time
u My sister is older and has power
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