What did he mean?

This guy who rejected me but is still in a good friendly terms with me said that I don’t talk to him as much as the others from our group when I asked him why is he more close to other people than with me which didn’t make sense because he met everyone else only because of me. He & I We go back longer than anyone else in our group. His reason was “they talk a lot to me but you don’t… you open the VR but you don’t talk that much, also I’m trying not to upset you. (Which is kind of weird because I do talk to him at least I try but he always gets more busy with the others and I don’t like to interrupt people) So what does that mean if I’m not talkative with him he’s not going to be close with me? We have known each other longer than anyone else yet he keeps saying this that I don’t talk to him. Well why can’t he talk to me then? The way he keeps being chatty Kathy with the other girls.
What did he mean?
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