I lost my virginity to him, he said he likes me , wants my kids even he did not know me well but then left me saying he does not any relationship?

[Deimy]

[WonderBell99]

Assuming you wanted a serious relationship, why would you get intimate with someone if you did not know them well enough? No genuine man would start talking about having kids with a woman he does not know fully about. That was a tell tale sign of a charming manipulator that you completely missed out on. He definitely did use you. Why on earth would he say he does not "do any relationship" when he promised you stuff before he slept with you? You cannot change the past.

Take this as a lesson and move on. Next time, if you want a relationship, do not sleep with them until you're in a committed relationship with them. This would help you weed out the arseholes who just want to use you.

[Deimy]

I was drunk

[WonderBell99]

Was he intoxicated as well?

[Deimy]

A bit the first time but just a little and he promised those things after that while not being drunk

[riya2001]

I can understand dear, i have also been suffering from the similar situation u r going through.

[Deimy]

How to recover?:((( did he ever come back and said sorry?

[riya2001]

Just learn lesson from this. Make yourself stronger emotionally. Try to always be busy in some other stuffs. Prioritise yourself , now get determined to be the best version of you. Achieve success and your goals. And beleive in god , he always knows what's best for us. You don't deserve that cheap person so god just weeded him out of your life. Take it in a positive way and try to focus on yourself only. Just love yourself. Karma will itself take revenge to them and one day he'll definitely realise what he lost.

[Deimy]

Thank you dear😭❤️

[riya2001]

My pleasure buddy. But please don't be sad. I'm feeling really sorry for what happened to you. You can have more conversation with me if u would like to have. Bcz we both r in same situation. If u wanna talk to me, just tell me.

[riya2001]

Sis, My xper level is not enough to message you in inbox right now.

[DaySpring]

I cannot relate but I send my support.
Promises don't mean anything for common folk.
You can make a promise to yourself and break it everyday.

What you need is a vetting system.
Don't become one of those girls who keeps getting fu*ked over.
Create a vetting system. It will help you make sound decisions and help you know a person and their intentions far quicker than usual.
If anyone of you two had had a vetting system this wouldn't have happened.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I'm sorry for what you've been through! Stay strong! Only time can heal you. There is nothing you can do to push it. Tho, there are things you can do to make the healing faster.

Also, please! Don't leave this experience make you hate man and think that we are all liars. Just make sure that the next time, you trust the guy more before you have sex with him. Take care!

[SnowedIn]

That's terrible! So sorry that happened to you.

[Deimy]

Ye that' s why I am so sad about it cause he promised things to me and left saying I gave too many red flags cause I called him user... but he had no time for me, made me wait for our date and then left me. I am so heartbroken. I don' t know how to recover I just want to die. It happened after my break up. My ex cheated on me. I don' t feel good enough now and I hate myself.

[SnowedIn]

Please, please, please do not hate yourself. You didn't do something bad or wrong. That's on him. You trusted him and he broke that trust. This hurts and this sucks but you're not in the wrong or bad or guilty or anything else.

[jshm2]

He just wanted to score that pussy, and lead you along until he did.

Learn from the lesson, kiddo.

[Berethor]

You failed to wait until marriage and so you got used.

[Summeroflove]

This is why you shouldn’t sleep with someone outside of marriage.

[Zolly99999]

He said what he had to say to get what he wanted... once he got it the game was over for him.

I'm sorry to say..

[Deimy]

But he had sex with me 2 times

[Zolly99999]

Yeah.. once is never enough..
I'm sorry to say this to you but there are scumbag guys out there that do this

[Deimy]

How can he be so bad? He just said to my friend that I am amazing and deserved to be happy and thanked me for everything and before he said " I know it is seems that I used you but it is not"

[Zolly99999]

Sorry but he definitely used you.. thats a fact.. don't listen to his lies

[Deimy]

Do you think he will get his karma?

[Zolly99999]

Ohhhh he definitely will! Karma is a bitch

[Sparkie460]

He told you what you wanted to hear so he can get in your pants and take your virginity. He was a user

[Adogdog]

Well, if I took a girl's virginity, I would want a relationship with her lol

[Deimy]

Ye that' s why I am so sad about it cause he promised things to me and left saying I gave too many red flags cause I called him user... but he had no time for me, made me wait for our date and then left me. I am so heartbroken.

[Adogdog]

I'm sorry

[Deimy]

Ye that' s why I am so sad about it cause he promised things to me and left saying I gave too many red flags cause I called him user... but he had no time for me, made me wait for our date and then left me. I am so heartbroken. I don' t know how to recover I just want to die. It happened after my break up. My ex cheated on me. I don' t feel good enough now and I hate myself.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Exactly! Can't understand how girls leave virgins...

[YourFavoriteFriend]

*guys

[Andres77]

Good riddance

[nawtee_me]

He lied and got what he wanted from you.