Guys asking for money all the time is this normal?

[MandySA]

I’ve been seeing a guy for 8 months, he constantly asks for money or things , if I say no he is not happy. Recent time I explained that it’s not right and that he needs to start investing more time with me as we see each other once or twice a week. Well he is not happy with this and says I’m being unreasonable. I feel used and hurt that he would rather sit at home playing Xbox than be with me and the. Still has the audacity to ask for money.

[PrettyPriya]

You mean "guy I was seeing", right? Break up with him. He is using you for money. That much is completely clear. I am not sure how you aren't seeing this. From your details, he is only happy when he gets what he wants.

Do you think that he is going to change? I don't, and I don't even know the guy. I know the type though. Sounds like he is lazy and as long as he gets what he wants, he will tolerate the relationship or whatever you want to call what you have.

The second he doesn't get that, he pouts like a three year old. You need to break up with this one. He is just going to continue to mooch off you. He also doesn't seem invested in your relationship at all.

Who in the heck wants to play video games rather than be with their girlfriend? Someone that has zero respect for the relationship is who. Best of luck to you.

[Summeroflove]

He isn’t entitled to your money. Giving money is something nobody has to do and it’s only out of the goodness of someone’s heart they even give money or even loan money is your discretion.

If he is using you and feels entitled. You ain’t married to him. What’s yours isn’t his.

He seems like he doesn’t even want to see you and unfortunately seems he is using you and is playing on your good heart

[TheSpaceGnome]

Now you understand why men hate gold digger women.

Dump his greedy ass.

That said, If you aren't interested in playing on xbox or other consoles/pc, then thats just as big of a red flag in terms of compatibility with him. Gamers should date gamers, people in general should date people who share their hobbies.

[Guy13]

If one is asking for money almost on a noticeable time table, there may be a habit that needs feeding. It really doesn’t matter…I woukd back away from that relationship. I’m not there so 🤷🏻‍♂️

[spartan55]

Seriously, where do you girls find these complete turds? For reference, I've never asked an SO for money in my life, not. one. time.

[Sparkie460]

He is a user and it's time to make him very unhappy by dumping his lazy ass. The guy should be spending time with his partner and not just when he needs money

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not normal, but it's a tale as old as time. He's using you, hon.

You need to dump him.

[In_Trance]

It's normal if you hang out with fuckboys but I think you're too old for that

[FilmGuy93]

No, that's not normal.

[Anonymous]

Anyone who asks for money isn't worth dating. Dump his ass to the curb and tell him to get a job.

[summiter]

He is using you. Dump his ass.

[Wise4myage]

Not normal, and I smell a moocher.

[Luckycharms12]

No that's not normal at all

[Luckycharms12]

Tell him get fucking job

[Luckycharms12]

And dump him and get a real Man

[Bigjake1019]

Not normal