Is it a bad thing to ask your boyfriend for money?

[Gloree]

Almost everyone is attacking me in a previous question because I asked him for money. After all he gives me monthly allowance. Just that he suspended it cause of some stuff.

So what is wrong with asking him for cash?

Updates

1 y

I don't like to work anymore. But I'm managing to do so. the pay is small. I've come to prefer the housewife thing. I can't be like other women. He was the one who was saying I need to move with him to his present location after marriage. So why can't I ask for money?

[msc545]

It is generally not a good idea to ask your romantic partner for money. Relationships are based on mutual respect, trust, and support, and asking your partner for money can put a strain on these elements of the relationship. It is important for both partners to maintain their independence and financial autonomy within a relationship.

If you are in a situation where you need financial assistance, it might be better to look for other solutions, such as seeking help from friends, family, or resources in your community, or finding ways to increase your income or reduce your expenses.

If you do decide to ask your partner for financial assistance, it is important to approach the conversation with honesty and respect and to be clear about the purpose and terms of the request. It is also important to be open to your partner's perspective and to respect their decision if they are unable or unwilling to provide financial assistance.

[Wise4myage]

Only if it becomes a regular habit.

[Summeroflove]

If you ask someone for money. It’s fine. But expect to pay it back unless they tell you to keep it

[virtue2332]

Apparently "some stuff" What exactly are you trying to accomplish with this these questions anyway? Are you looking for people to reassure you that you are a good person? Are you half trolling and bragging? It's your life live it how you want. Let me pass on some knowledge to you. It's ok to ask your boyfriend for money. You can also usually get money when you earn it or exchange services or goods. Soo if you are cut off he clearly doesn't think you earned it or the value and quality of the services or goods you are currently providing him are a reflected in the amount of money you are currently receiving you said 0 Right?

[exitseven]

You should not be dependent on your boyfriend for money. I assume that you do not have any disability that would prevent you from having a job.

[Jennz6]

Why not?

[20yearsolder]

How about you go out and earn your own? Personally I would be embarrassed if I had to ask my partner for money.

[BJP21]

Nothing wrong with it as long as bills are paid, house is clean, and food on the table.

[Jennz6]

No, I wish I had an allowance 💃I would work really hard for it

[EmmaMary]

What are you, some stuck up glorified bone idled parasite?

[Redstang88]

If he’s dumb enough to give it to you, go for it I guess.

[motownplayer2000]

Nothing wrong with asking. Just don’t expect to do or give nothing in return.

[Staximus]

Stop being a bum

[Gloree]

oh please

[AimeeKyle]

A boyfriend, no.

[AimeeKyle]

I guess unless he is up for bartering…. It’s really up to you and your boyfriend though..

[ThatCanucker]

Why can't you make your own money?

[Anonymous]

Nothing I guess if you don’t mind being supported

[In_Trance]

yes it is