Is it normal if boyfriend never never asked his girlfriend about her day or check on her its been 3 weeks?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone I have Q about relationship


My boyfriend never asks me about my day, or how I’m doing but expect when he need something like hey babe how are you i have bad day can you help me when i did he gone and always post sad music and i never hurts his heart when i asked him why are sad he reply because u don't help me when i need u ( i didnot give him finance ) every day asked for money for his mom and shopping. I am a woman not guy to spend for him I gave him i felt he using me I don't know. I love him a lot but i feel now i hate him a lot and i feel i lost feeling. I need real love never ask me about my own money. The funny thing he told me i dont trust you show me your bank account :/ . And i always book a flight to travel and he said you dont love me you book a flight and vacation important then me. I hate this relationship like i did not do anything wrong i dont feel i am in relationship if my man never ask me what am i doing :(

I hope your understand my English i am sorry if my grammar worst 💗

[Finchie40]

It sounds like you are dating the wrong guy period , a guy that only cares about himself that doesn’t care about your feelings , you are in a one sided relationship, basically his way or no way that’s honestly a relationship you should really reconsider , the reason you are upset is because you aren’t receiving the same or equivalent as what you are giving , so it’s best for you not to waste your time on someone that only thinks of themselves , you will only be hurting
Yourself by staying with someone that is like that , The only way love grows between 2 people is if both people choose each other and prioritize each other over everyone else , We can only give what we want to receive, if we constantly give with no receiving it’s best to walk away because
That other person just likes the convenience of you and likes using you , they do not value you or appreciate you unless it’s on their terms. My ex did this to me as well, moving on from her was the best decision I ever made

[RavVid]

Your grammar is not so bad that I can't understand :)

I think you have more problems than him not checking in with you for weeks. I don't think he is your boyfriend. He would be in far more frequent contact if he was

He is using you for money and wanting to check your bank account for gods sake and resenting you spending your money on yourself instead of him. Now I don't agree it is OK in the reverse of a guy giving a girl money but this is badly wrong.

I say terminate him.

[Asker]

I will unfollow him

[Asker]

I will send him broke up text then unfollow him

[RavVid]

good move.

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t seem like a good sign…I’m sure you also think the same. So why waste your time and energy on someone like that?

[Asker]

I love him :(

[Asker]

I want to unfollow him i can't

[spartan55]

Your English is fine, Okay, why exactly are you still together with that lowlife? Please DO NOT give him any money, and don't let him manipulate you or make you feel guilty for not sponsoring him. I have had many girlfriends in my life and have NEVER asked for a dime from any of them. Please find your dignity and self respect and dump that loser TODAY.

[m1tch3ll]

its been 3 weeks and he hasn't done that once? either you're one of his first few or the start kf relationship isn't exciting for him and you should leave him

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like you are putting in more effort than him in the relationship.

[Asker]

I hate lovee

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ey don't hate love, if anything hate one sided love 😂

[Asker]

I unfollow him on tiktok my mind told me not unfollow him show him ur happy and buy more expensive thing and let him see and ignore him all the time until he unfollow u 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Wow you sure showed him Hazel (sarcasm) lol

I don't recommend playing games for attention, you move on or you don't, your time is on the line

[Asker]

True

[Asker]

But he played game with me :( if i do same and then remove him

[ChicoFromThe305]

Or you can choose to be mature about it and move on, what would be the point of doing the same back, how will that benefit you, a good benefit would be moving on, not wasting time and find happiness elsewhere

[HouseMoat]

Depends on what you believe a boyfriend is. I could ask you that everyday, but am I your "boyfriend", or your "friends with benefits"? lmao

[BoopBoopBeep]

Never date a man that needs money from you.

[NathanDavis]

he's trying to use your money...

[OddBeMe]

3 weeks? Are you sure he knows you two are dating?

[LazerBean]

No, it's not normal

[Anonymous]

Scammer from nigeria