Platonic Opposite Sex Friendships?

[FlyWithAMarie]

Are opposite sex friendships even possible anymore? Where can I find guy friends that will only want to be a good bro to me! I have so many female friends yet no REAL guy best friends because I always have to find out the hard way that they’re secretly attracted to me. I want a good guy friend for mutual support, banter, venting, and etc. I’m taking applications!

[matchrestore]

I've got a more good female friends than male. I can't say I don't find any of them attractive, but I can say I have no desire to sleep with or be romantic with any of them.

[FlyWithAMarie]

I feel like that’s how it should be! I think it’s okay to have friends of the opposite sex even if it’s more than your same sex friendships, but if you view them as people you’re attracted to and would be with if they made a move on you or if you were simply single. It’s strange

[Guy13]

No man with good sense will date a woman who has best friends male. We are friends with people who are attractive to us in some way plus 🍺 is Trouble.

[FlyWithAMarie]

Thank you for responding, but I must ask. If you’re in a relationship with a girl would you feel like it’s your right to have female friends?

[Guy13]

Not as best friend that I tell everything too. They call that a girlfriend. That is the person one is really dating. Your emotional connection is with the “best/girl” friend…not the one that one is having sex with

[Bethany22]

You're unfortunately going to have to be friends with gay guys. They like to do the things on your list

[FlyWithAMarie]

It’s starting to feel that way to be honest!!

[dustybiker]

Start riding motorcycles. The best hang out at the shops.

[FlyWithAMarie]

It’s funny you say that because I’m actually interested in that!!

[dustybiker]

Nice! 😎

[Berethor]

It can work if the girl is ugly, but many guys want to be friends only with attractive girls.

[FlyWithAMarie]

YIKES

[sirderpsalot123]

It's possible.

[FlyWithAMarie]

I hope!!!