Why do some guys come back?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to this guy like two years ago and it got complicated. We started off casual but then I caught feelings. He claimed he did too but he was hot and cold and I didn’t believe him so I cut him off. Since then we’ll go months, the longest was a year, without talking then he’ll suddenly reach out and we’ll end up seeing each other. Recently, he reached out and we met up. We talked for an hour then he had to run an errand but he came back and we hooked up. He kissed me before I left and said he wanted to see me more consistently. Not going to lie, I’ve been thinking about it since then. I don’t want to think too much into it and get hurt

[Katebfun]

I datws a guy 2.5 months we had a good physical connection I wanted commitment he lied and said he did too. He texted me recently after more than a year he ghosted me. He dated 2 women and both relationships last less then 3 months and he was to blame. He's a sex addict. I had already moved out of state 😆 so it was too late!

I believe he was bored, lonely & horny. I don't believe he had good intentions and regretted losing me or anything. He was sad that I no longer lived in his state.

[nolabels]

I did so on one occasion.

I was torn terribly when I first decided to part ways after several months of a whirlwind romance followed by severe disillusionment. I realized that I was infatuated, not in love. I chalked it up to my own inexperience in the matters of the heart.

I was in lust but knew in my heart that things weren't going to go well in the long run.

I succumbed to lust and met with her one last time.

During that final date, my lust drained away and I realized that my heart was being true to myself.

That date provided full closure for me. As for her, I wished and still wish a good life for her.

That's my story.

I wish the best to you.

[Guy13]

Good luck figuring this one out... It is really romantic though. How long since last contact?

[Asker]

It’s been less than 24 hours since I’ve last seen him lol

[Guy13]

Ohhhh Drama Queen !!! Reel it in before you emotionally frazzle him and he ghosts. You will see him this weekend?

[Avicenna]

Sometimes it's because it seems easier to contact someone you've already broken the ice with or maybe there is curiosity.

[Rapport]

in my opinion, typically because of:

Boredom and/or loneliness

And trying to see if he can make a connection again out on one or both of those reasons.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason sone girls do

[Anonymous]

Just suck his dick and live a happy life. you're miserable without him anyways.

[Luckycharms12]

Because you keep hooking up take sex of table see if really wants you or not

[KrakenAttackin]

He likes fucking you and you put out easily.

[femalenpc]

You're the Ole Reliable of hookups.

[OddBeMe]

Sex. Blue balling. Saw your ig