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To tell you honestly, I am a virgin, 22 year old, and its an interesting fact that I found same people that shares the same views as I did
I do believe that being a virgin is a sacred gift we have from God that we have to keep till marriage,
its just nowadays, it becomes a threat to us by society, to forget what we believe in ourselves.
So with all those questions with virgins things
In order for us to understand men or guys,
FIRST, we have to understand the difference between INNOCENCE and IGNORANCE
INNOCENCE- The views and beliefs your holding to, it can also be understood as our STANDARDS
IGNORANCE- Your ability to became curious with things, and it contradicts your knowledge with RIGHT and WRONG
most people that ask here, are innocent we hold on to this, because we know the value and thats the great thing
but being innocent should not limit yourself in knowing whats right and wrong
IGNORANCE is a threat to innocence,
But the fact is its really not
To share my experience as a college girl
I've been with a guy at my age, who is like in the stage of EGOISM, he doesn't know anything, he just want sex
and apparently, I've been with him, and to the stage, if im going to give up my innocence to him
So that time, im just observing him, what he's doing, and he has no clue
that im not ignorant at all, im laughing at him inside, And its like he's egos been stepped down as he get to the point he had to demonstrate it, But he has no clue, I already know how to make a man happy, So i ended up i refused cause im in control
To the girls, to all the p--0rn you are watching, its a great thing to remove all those ignorance in life, but you dont need to do it in real life
P--0rn are MENS thing to let go of those ego with there selves and thats NOT a WOMAN THING, we should do in bed
In order for you to control yourself and self-respect, YOU HAVE TO BE TRULY CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF!!!
Society made us think and made us feel embarrassed that we are stupid that we didn't know how to do things
We dont have to be stupid,
We have to be knowledgeable enough that sex isn't a thing you can do anything you want or your man want, its not unlimited
it should be limited with your innocence and made it special with PASSION
Because most men, doesn't have the idea, how to deal with girls like us, who are INNOCENT, and believe that SEX has VALUE at all,
Understand IGNORANCE and INNOCENCE, and you'll discover your own streng
Wow. most of the guys I meet in college want a virgin girl. I think it's an advantage to be virgin, because most guys want to be the first to have that girl. I'm not virgin, not by choice; I think it's an immature way of looking for a potential mate. There are other critical traits that are needed. Guys in college, generally are focused on their studies and may not be as dating experienced; I'm pretty as well, and I'm not easy either.
i think guys can be jerks in college.i don't know.i'm a virgin too and have to deal with the same thing.the inexperience thing.honestly if you can't find a guy that will respect that.then its their fault.
Then the guys that are hitting on you only want one thing. They aren't interested in a long term relationship, they're just looking for a little booty.
I slept with two different virgins in college. I knew because of all the blood the two times they ruined my sheets in my bed. One of them became insanely clingy. She became obsessed with me and anytime I talked to anyone else she got jealous. It got to the point that everyday was an argument and one day I woke up and she was in my room. She tried to stick a needle in my ear while I was asleep.
The second one became a huge whore after I slept with her. She would come over 3 or 4 times a day wanting sex. That was awesome at first but started getting old after a few months. She was getting worse and worse also. She started sleeping with 2 other guys, one of them was still in high school. He had a heart defect and died one night while talking to her online. She talked to his mom after his mom read everything they typed on the screen. Her mom got her locked up for statutory rape. She was put on probation and now is a registered sex offender.
Not only have I found now that I'm older I don't want to show a girl "the ropes" anymore. I like to have a girl that has experience with dealing with the emotional side of sex. Which seems to be hard to find.
Simple. Young guys want sex from a girl and if she's a virgin they know that it's not likely, so they look elsewhere. Most of them, anyway.
The ones who AREN'T inclined to run..well, YOU should run after THEM, frankly. They are the ones with a little CULTURE, not just hormones...
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Well, I am against saying "all guys" or "all girls". I've done it before and I was miserable. So I've learned not to judge and I'm so happy. I actually am looking for a girl like you, and not just to "deflower". If you are a virgin, I'd respect that and wait for you. I've dated girls who told me they were waiting for marriage and I've respected that. Sure, you might feel bad if a guy ran out on you after learning he wouldn't get any, but it would be for the best.
I have the same problem finding women who want relationships and can accept my sexual inexperience. It's hard enough finding a girl I like. But the best way to look at it is to realize that eventually you'll find that person who is sensitive and understands who you are, and you'll have one of the best guys out there, rather than settling for some average manwhore who isn't good enough to want to get to know you.
It's not a "college boy thing", it is a maturity thing. You need to find a guy that is mature and respectful, which may be difficult but I assure you they are out there. Hell, I am one of them, I don't have sex with any girl unless my feelings for her are love.
Thats just me though.
A lot of college guys want to have a "fun time" if you know what I mean and they might feel like your inexperienced or they can find a girl who is really easy to have that "fun time" with and whenever they want. In my opinion, I think it would be sexy, I plan on being a virgin as well through college, unless I find true love. You will just have to find the guy who thinks the same as you do.
If she meet my standards I think I want her to be my first, god plz don't let me fail this time!
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Well, honestly, I guess I would never be with a virgin again. They have no idea what they are doing and the hurt my thing. It sucks, I surely would'nt wait long enough. I mean what do you expect? These are college age guys. Basically, they are a walking hard-on looking for a hole.Thats the age they are at, their sexual peak is between 18-24. Why would they wait around for you to be ready during the most sexual experimentational years of their life? Plus, for every one of you, there are 500 little college slutties for them to get their thingies into. I'm sorry, you cannot compete with that. I think you should try to find a virgin who is on the same page as you. Try going to church and start looking there. Good Luck
I imagine you are separating the shallow and superficial from those who are actually interested in you as a person. I was always my preference to date girls who actually valued chastity.
I'm not college age yet but I think it shows self-control and self-respect. If she's good looking then it's bonus points. It makes her seem more trusworthy and therefore a better candidate for a long-term relationship.
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