The guy I like has a girlfriend but I think he flirts with me, not sure?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve had a crush on this dude recently and he’s reciprocated that he likes me earlier in our friendship but I found out he has a girlfriend. He asked me to be his best friend and we’ve had cute conversations but he brings her up randomly sometimes he’s even said me and her act alike. I’ve tried to call back but him asking me to be his best friend really has me stuck. He gets mad when I bring up my other guy best friend that I’ve known for longer and gets mad when I give him whole hugs instead of side hugs. What do you guys think I really need help?

[PrettyPriya]

It sounds like you two cannot handle each other being in a relationship. Him more so than you. Is that really a good friend, let alone a best friend, that would get mad that you give a hug to another person.

You also seem to be a bit hung up on the title "best friend". What are the qualifications for that? Furthermore, he is in a relationship. You need to respect that. You do not want to be the cause of them breaking up. You will carry that label around and lots of people will lose trust if they find out you were the cause.

If you look at the situation as a whole, it doesn't seem real healthy. I think you are best to back away from this guy considering his relationship status and how he cannot seem to manage to see you with another guy, even a friend. I just don't see much good coming of the situation that you are in. Just my perspective.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Do you really want someone who's likely to be a cheater while they're in a relationship? That will likely happen to you as well if you become his girlfriend. Think about it, there are so many bachelor's waiting for you out there.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

*bachelors... ugh this autocorrect lol 😂

[Kaneki05]

Flirting is fine without an intension for more in my view. But the real question is does he want more? And to me it sounds like he does.
Getting made over you been around other guys is not something a guy would be thinking if he's content with his girlfriend.

You just need to put him on the spot really. Tell him to quit been jealous and longing for me or break up with your girlfriend.
And if he tries to explain he wants best of both worlds get out because that's just him looking for a way he can cheat on his girlfriend but also have her still.

[slatyb]

You need to dump your crush. He's not a nice person. He's leading you on while he's seeing someone else, and worse, he's possessive.

[In_Trance]

Ridiculous