Did he go to the strip secretly and lie about it?

[Anonymous]

hey guys so my boyfriend and I been together for three years. Honest guy and from what I know hasn’t been a shady character. His best friends bachelor party was gonna be top golf and strip club. He told me a week in advance and asked my comfortability and decided on his own he wouldn’t go, only to top golf. That night he left at 8:30 pm for the reservation at 9. Called him at midnight and he was on his way home, for those who don’t know top golf is like a bar hangout too doesn’t close until 1 am, anyways he came home shortly after saying the guys were continuing on to the strip club. Later on that night in the group chat the guys messaged each other saying they had a good time thanks for coming so I assume they left late from the club. I also seen messages where my boyfriend asked if they took videos of the groom to be (his bestfriend) getting a lap dance in which they replied phones weren’t allowed. Call me crazy but is there a way he lied? He came home at midnight his friends were saying goodnight around 2-3 am am I over thinking?

[ZXCwWRQWz]

You can't even set up properly by midnight. Gotta get the girl in the private hotel, undress her, lots of stuff. I don't think there's any way of him screwing another girl if that's what you're worried about. I think you got a good one although he might be a tad reluctant to share fun details.

[that1guy19]

Sounds like he probably didn't go. He would have been out a lot later. The strip clubs don't get fun until like 2am. Also even if he went why would you be upset? I can see his guy friends giving him shit and guilting him into it

[spartan55]

I feel sorry for your boyfriend. Snooping through his chats wtf... are you really that insecure?

[Guy13]

I'm not even following so it must be true...