If he calls me 'little sarah' is that condescending?

[Anonymous]

Guy that I like

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And my name is sarah

[Summeroflove]

I suppose it depends on how he says it. If you don’t like it. Then ask him to stop calling you that.

[Asker]

He sent me like 4 long messages about his job amd I hadn't responded so he said 'little Sarah must have collapsed dancing hard in her dance class today goodnight '

[Summeroflove]

Eh. Maybe he figured you were tired and didn’t have time to respond.

Just tell him how you feel about being called that or ask him to clear up what he meant by that.

[TroyDT2]

Is there another Sarah in his life who is taller / bigger than you? Or is he much, much larger than you? Basically it could be a term of endearment or of condescension, depending upon the specifics.

[BarryLiverstone]

Is he bigger than you are?

[Asker]

About 4 inches taller

[BarryLiverstone]

Makes you smaller right? Not condescending

[Asker]

He sent me like 4 long messages about his job amd I hadn't responded so he said 'little Sarah must have collapsed dancing hard in her dance class today goodnight '

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s being playful, that’s not an insult

[Asker]

Thank you

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Did you reply?

[Asker]

No I'm asleep because I was dancing hard in my dance class remember

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope I missed where you said you are asleep

[Asker]

Collapsed sleeping

[BarryLiverstone]

Must have been a tough class