When will men take accountability and responsibility for who they lay down with instead of blaming women for all their problems?

[coachTanthony]

The amount of men on GAG who bitch and moan about women is getting ridiculous. I dare even call them MEN. It's disgusting. Afraid to approach a woman because they might go to jail but would go jail by getting into a stupid bar fight over something stupid that was said.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

YES! Let's go!!! The leader, the great man that will teach us how to be real men and get the women of our dreams!!! Come on coach!!! I'm sure you are not the classic 50+ divorced YouTuber that goes telling guys how to be real masculine men and live their lives happy. I'm sure you are different! Wait, what? You are 50. And you are divorced!!! And you have are an online coach who's advises never worked? I don't believe it, someone wake me up!

Nah, it's pretty bad you are in this world 2.5X times more than I am and you are more immature. You are the one bitching and crying cause not everyone is a "real man" based on your great image. Nah, I don't care how you have grown up. Men these days are much much different that they were in your generation. You and girls should get over it OR society must change and become worth it for us to be "real man". Till then, I'll keep having fun with my friends and try to contribute to society as little as possible till society hopefully collapses!

[coachTanthony]

Thanks I appreciate the admiration and following. One day young Flanigan you too can be great like me.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I hope that I won't have the honor...

[coachTanthony]

Maybe one day I will allow you to tickle my ball sack. Until that day keep getting better.

[KrakenAttackin]

#1 Simp is back bearing his whipped little drum.

[coachTanthony]

Glad to see you are back.. . but didn't know you were a simp though. Damn man you need to fix that shit.

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@coachTanthony

It's not just the men on this site, the woman are just as bad. There are countless posts by women who have little to no standards bitching about guys that treat them like dirt... when they're the dimwitted ones that go out/hookup with whoever says hi to them at a bar.

That's what it comes down to nowadays. As I was talking to a friend in States a standards, hard work, taking responsibility is a very rare find in today's society. People don't like to be responsible. People don't like to be held accountable. It doesn't matter on the sex.

And why in 20 maybe 50 years the majority of Western Societies will be down the tubes and look like a shit fest rather than anything representing a decent respectful or respectable country.

[coachTanthony]

Women are probably worse but I am only talking about men right now.

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@coachTanthony - the genders go hand in hand, that's the problem. I've tried to dating sites for example and some of the expectations of men on these sites are just appalling. But they don't think anything of it because they've had some women accept even encouraging their outrageous behavior.

With regards to your post if they've had a bad experience with a woman accused them of say stalking or harassment when all they were doing was trying to ask her on a date they're going to look at all women in a similar mindset. And unfortunately there are a lot of women that are just plain stupid and cause more problems than their worth.

[Anonymous]

Yes, and if you call them out on it, they resort to insults.

[coachTanthony]

What woman would want such crybabies is beyond me.

[FilmGuy93]

Uh... Coach... men take a TON of accountability. That's what most of the manosphere is actually about.

[coachTanthony]

The men here on GAG need some lessons then lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Just stop. You might coach soy boys how to be more feminine, but you have no business lecturing men.

[coachTanthony]

@KrakenAttackin If you watch everything I say and do, bitch you a fan. Thanks for the support.

[FilmGuy93]

Bars. And just to be petty, I’m not gonna say which one I agree with. 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

Fan, my ass, more like a check on your simping BS.

[coachTanthony]

@KrakenAttackin OMG thanks for the comments. Great comeback

[inhua]

who says they don't?

there's only so many factors anyone (may it be a man or woman) can be responsible for because there are things outside of their control.

stupid bar fights have no reputative damage even though there is clear evidence for it whereas getting MeToo'd has more reputative damage despite it only be a he said/she said situation. Will Smith slapping Chris Rock was seen as nothing more than a joke for a few months. Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard got dragged out for years. When Kobe Bryant passed away a couple of years ago, people came out calling him a rapist even though he was found not guilty and we haven't heard of anything from the women who made those allegations against him. how about society put some accountability on those who lie about such things? are you in favor of that? will you be at the forefront of that when it happens?

unless of course you believe men should also have all the power too because with great power comes great responsibility.

[coachTanthony]

False reports of sexual assault are dramatically overestimated. Just do a google search. So since there is a miniscule change of it happening to the average guy... lets' just bitch about it and stop interacting with women altogether? Because that is what is happening. Most men who do terrible with women will somehow bring up shit in hopes they don't have to improve themselves. They will just say... see look this can happen so NO THANKS LOL Ridiculous.

[inhua]

rapes are also a small percentage of interactions, it doesn't stop women from being afraid of men and having their guards up. we still lock our homes at night even though the chance a break in is low. we still put on seat belts even though we may never encounter a car crash in our lives. parents don't leave their kids with strangers even though the majority of strangers wouldn't harm the kid. in safe cities cops wear bulletproof vests because there's a possibility they could be shot at anywhere. something being unlikely to happen is not the same as something that would never happen and people have the right to consider all possibilities.
and as far as stats are concerned, the false reports of sexual assault aren't that high because interactions are simply not that high either and what constitutes as sexual assault/harassment these days is entirely subjective not to mention there's very little stigma towards lying despite what the virtue signaling crowd says.

[coachTanthony]

In the 60's and 70's nobody believed a woman who got assaulted. Fast forward to the 2000's the narrative was we must now believe all women. We need a balance of evidence and justice.

[inhua]

that's easier said than done. even if a man was found innocent of sex crimes and doesn't have to serve time in prison, employers will still be hesitant to hire him and women would still try to avoid him as much as possible. regardless of stats, it's the attitude society has towards these type of things that is the much bigger problem.

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@coachTanthony
They also didn't believe children who were molested in the 60s & 70s and why some of the WORST institutionalism (either schools or churches or orphanage) related cases of MULTIPLE upwards in some cases of possible HUNDREDS of child rape can be tied back to that time frame throughout most western countries but particularly Canada and the United States.

60s and 70s was a time line when people pretended they were the all American white picket fence perfect family while dreaming about running their relatives over in the driveway. Just look at sitcoms like Married with Children that makes a mockery of the average household during the late 70s, 80s.

Similarly today not every woman is believed by authorities it's why a percentage of rape is never reported

[suzzieQ]

Bar fights certainly do have reputable damage especially if you are charged with public intoxication and assault. False sexual assault reports are extremely rare, also you’re not a celebrity so no worries there.

[suzzieQ]

On average, there are 463,634 victims (age 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States. So it’s not rare, it’s shockingly common. Most rapes are committed by someone the victim knows.

[inhua]

@suzzieQ bar fights don't get taken seriously by the public and are easily forgettable. no one cares if Jack and John get into a punch on fighting over Jane but if either Jack or John are said to have raped Jane whether true or not, it becomes major news to the public. it's not just celebs who have to worry about this, regular folk have lost jobs, lost scholarships, been expelled, been imprisoned over such allegations and because they have less money and overall less people vouching for their character, it becomes even harder. it's not just something immediate to worry about, 10+ years down the line any of these allegations can pop up and the accuser can claim they were too scared to come forward at the time. how is the accused suppose to combat that?

[TheSpaceGnome]

"False reports of sexual assault are dramatically overestimated."

There is no estimate, most men aren't sitting there guessing the national or global statistic, they are going mostly by local friend's experiences, and if most of those are bad, it's a red flag for your area.

[coachTanthony]

@TheSpaceGnome Grown men out in Kansas City who are going out for the weekend are not sitting around worrying about "me too" and sexual assaults. This right here is what I am talking about. Most men are out chasing ass not huddled around like little girls crying over something they saw on the news.

[suzzieQ]

Or they are taking their own advice and not putting themselves into dangerous situations.

[Lionman95]

There will always be two groups of guys, those that do the work of figuring out the world and their purpose and those that think they know it all and give their opinion to anything but if they were questioned they don't have a fundament and start the blame game with personal attacks.
I don't think it's wrong if guys complain about a situation though because that just means they figured out that something is wrong. It's only a problem if they started blaming issues of the past or different other people for problems they have and created over times.
Though I get their reason, too. (because I've been the same for some time) I think it's worse because it shows that a guy can't handle life and isn't in control of his actions. A guy that isn't in control over himself could be a danger to everyone else since he might not have a backbone or values.
Sorry but I don't think there will ever be a time where all males were men or gonna be men.
I therefore think it's way easier and productive to create spaces for the first group of guys to meet and learn from each other. Keep each other accountable and help each other learn then make guys that are not interested in working or take steps to change their mind.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't go to bars or start fights, and I've also not seen a single mention of that on gag, then again, I do have quite a few people blocked.
Inversely, despite the blocking, I see tons of examples by men and women, of legitimate reasons why approaching women in today's society is a terrible idea.
Women more often than not demonize men, and the legal consequences of that just make it not worth it. And thats not even going into the impractical implications of approaching strangers for dating in public at all from a compatibility slot machine point of view.

Also with the lousy advice you give all the time, and your frequent blatent misrepresentation of both genders, you really are in no position to talk... If even half the shit you claim were true, you would have just added that much more fuel to that fire.

[coachTanthony]

I don’t have anyone blocked. Wonder why you do?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because many of the people on here are quite stupid, while also often being certain of themselves, and I regulate who I interact with based on an intelligence "pay wall" so to speak.

More so when they start trolling or arguing to no end, despite evidence, logic, or both, clearly nullifying their points.

[coachTanthony]

You might as well add me to the list because so far you haven't said anything that is factual.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Everything I've said thus far is factual. But since you seem to think otherwise, I agree, you should be added to the list.

[Curmudgeon]

"Afraid to approach a woman because they might go to jail but would go jail by getting into a stupid bar fight over something stupid that was said."

In what world is THAT? We stay away from both situations.

[coachTanthony]

Many angry tough guys out there who would get beat down in real life... it only takes one time.

[DenizLikesTennis]

"The amount of men on GAG who bitch and moan about women is getting ridiculous. I dare even call them MEN. It's disgusting"

Bro, you're calling me out while I was actually telling the same thing in myTake about the Red Pill with all these men.

You just want attention and love from women with these questions

[coachTanthony]

I get enough attention in real life …let’s not get it twisted ANON lol

[AmyHew1tt]

I mean, I do get what they're nervous about, but at the same time, lots of it does kind of just feel like an excuse not to be the ones to make the first move anymore. It's fair not to want to do that, but the majority of real women aren't going to #metoo at him for speaking to her in a coffee shop. In fact, even if we don't want to admit it, most girls do actually still want attention. Just as long as it stays respectful.

[MendaciousMarxist]

I actually hate when people interject with "Feminism hurts men too!” in every discussion about womens systemic oppression. like no, it doesn't. You don’t need to bring it up every single time we discuss misogyny as a reason people shouldn't *really* care about dismantling the patriarchy. like Men suffering isn’t enough of an issue (because they don't) and im just sick of having to cater to mens victim complex, ESPECIALLY ON G@G.

FINALLY, THANK YOU FOR BRINGING THIS UP! It's complete nonsense coming from weak men.

[hafinjun]

I say we can men and women from gag

[hafinjun]

Ban, not can , BAN! Smart phones bah humbug

[PinkRose24]

Guys (in general, not you) are a bunch of pussies now a days! They can't even call a girl beautiful. Also they want the girl to be the one that approaches them.

[coachTanthony]

They are pissed off because they got no options with women so instead of getting better they get angry and hateful.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

We don't call the beautiful because we don't give free attention and also most girls are ugly af wearing a ton of fake-up these days...

[USLegionary]

You can still bitch about bad bitches and take personal responsibility

[coachTanthony]

Wish more men would.

[SoftCliff]

Ah exactly. Respect for this post Coach. This app is full of men that tend to blame their personal failures on women and hate on them... I don't know what they gain with this attitude, instead of working towards self-improvement

[rosek]

Both sides throw temper tantrums about the other side. Women bitch about men, men bitch about women. Just work on yourself and make yourself a high-value person, and then find other high-value people. Ignore the cry babies.

[NathanDavis]

I agree with you... to call them men is too much a favor for the lot of these

[coachTanthony]

It's like romper room with crying babies.

[NathanDavis]

lmao...

[Anonymous]

Some men take accountability some don't, either in real life or in GaG but I have never seen a single woman anywhere taking accountability. Women make huge drama over losing arguments, past actions, and laziness... Good luck calling a woman fat if she really is and you are telling the truth.

[coachTanthony]

Do they have to for you as a man to do the right thing or is it well women don't do it so I'm not either.

[Anonymous]

I know right? It's getting out of hand. But to be fair, both guys and girls complain about each other and blame all their problems on the other. I feel like men are just starting to do it more now.

[CateM]

Real men don't bitch about women and blame them for all their problems, real men own up to their shit.

[dustybiker]

There are men who adapt and men who just b*tch.

[dustybiker]

Same for woman though.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Accountability and responsibility isn't a human strength regardless of gender.

Much more easier and convenient just to think or say "it's their fault."

[suzzieQ]

Because it’s easier to blame someone else for your failures and shortcoming than it is to take personal responsibility.

[Anonymous]

Ohhh, this is gonna start the party. It's gonna trigger them irresponsible guys and MGTOW 😁😁😁